Inter-Racial Marriage Between Sikh and Christian

[Guest guest]

On 2/1/2019 at 3:54 AM, Guest Guest Amrit said:

I have been in a relationship with a nonsikh man for the past 4 years, but it has been a secret relationship (meaning my parents don't know)... but in Indian or Sikh culture I have realized that this is deemed as unacceptable. 

if you didn't know it is deemed unacceptable, why did you keep it a secret for 4 years?  lol.

troll.

[Guest GuestSingh]

11 hours ago, TinnkerBell said:

Doubt  ta menu v hoyi si, but how can you so sure bai ji ?

seems conveniently posted when discussion on this subject in the other section has been very active...and what apni today cares about their 'indian/sikh culture' so much to mention it twice?

even if it was true, she doesnt know the meaning of either 'culture' or 'sikh'...

[TinnkerBell]

1 hour ago, GuestSingh said:

seems conveniently posted when discussion on this subject in the other section has been very active...and what apni today cares about their 'indian/sikh culture' so much to mention it twice?

even if it was true, she doesnt know the meaning of either 'culture' or 'sikh'...

U are right brother

[Guest GuestSingh]

On 2/2/2019 at 5:04 AM, Guest Singhni said:

With all due respect why would any Singhni give you the time of day if you use racial slurs against white or black people? You think you are non-western but you copy the racism of nazi''s of yesteryear by using the same loaded terms that Nazi's use like blackey and race-traitors. What's ironic is that white guys, east asian guys and black guys who are insecure all accuse their women of being disloyal to an even greater degree! 

Have you ever stopped to think that in countries where 99% of people are non-Sikhs it's actually a miracle that most women from a Sikh background do not marry out. The only community that tries to keep their women in line like slaves are the Muslims who do that via racism, honor killings and domestic violence. And look at what this is resulting in democratic societies. I know of a couple of girls from Muslim families who have married Kesdhari Sikh men in the GTA. So the truth of Sikhi and anti-racist Gurmat will shine through in the end provided it isn't tainted by western racist concepts that you seem to have soaked up.

SinghSabha1699/DhadrianwaleZindabad/SukhaSinghMehtab2015/GareebSikh1699/isingh1699/SheikhYoBooty,

it aint a racial slur if its based on real-life experience and observation - whitey seems just as disloyal and blackey moreso so why they complaining? they cant say anything....

anyway, loyalty by marriage means nothing - we all know its done either outta force by family or guilt on the individual after their shameless and disgusting 'fun'.

and if ur gonna reply to my posts, at least keep the same name and style cuz all these different guest monikers and recent pms just makes it seem u have some sort of multiple personality disorder...

[Guest GuestSingh]

On 2/2/2019 at 10:44 AM, dallysingh101 said:

You seem to be implying that girls brought up with eastern values naturally have better family values, but do you not realise in doing so you're basically ignoring charitrio pakyaan and its message? It's like applying binary thinking on an east/west divide. I don't think humans are simply  definable like that. 

CP clearly shows that deceitful partners are no new phenomena - this stuff was going on even in our Gurus time. 

thats a fair point...

but my post was also about the extremely strong western influences i.e. dating, feminism and even pornography, on apnia which is making their already feral nature even more worse from my pov...

at least in those days, there was less if any worry about diluting the gene pool since our ancestory already contained hindu/muslim blood and our surroundings were made up of same folk whereas now its gonna be diluted and weakened with others from over the world and thats only gonna result in a loss of identity by appearance, a loss of culture by mixed-heritage and a loss of faith by mixed-beliefs.

[Sukhvirk1976]

On 2/1/2019 at 3:54 AM, Guest Guest Amrit said:

I have been in a relationship with a nonsikh man for the past 4 years, but it has been a secret relationship (meaning my parents don't know). For the past two years we have been talking about marriage, but in Indian or Sikh culture I have realized that this is deemed as unacceptable. But why is it unacceptable? I don't see any reason other than the fact that I wouldn't be able to pass on the culture or bring my children up as Sikhs, but he has agreed to let me do that because he understands that it is something very important to me. If he's okay with that- then why would it still be unacceptable?

It's not unacceptable 

[Sukhvirk1976]

On 2/1/2019 at 9:12 AM, Guest 500rma said:

Sat sri Akal phenji!

There’s nothing wrong with an inter caste or inter faith “marriage” but you CANNOT have an interfaith “Anand Karaj” 

There’s four ceremonies that a Sikh undergoes in his lifetime, ideally.

NaamKaran(naming),

Amrit sanchar(initiation into Khalsa), 

Anand Karaj (marriage)

antim sanskar (cremation after death)

 

if you can live without Anand Karaj, that’s your decision to make. 

Good luck!

wahegurji ka Khalsa, wahegurji ki fateh!

If someone doesn't have all these ceremonies does that mean they are not a sikh? 

[Sukhvirk1976]

On 2/1/2019 at 6:49 AM, S1ngh said:

 

Nonsense 

[Guest guest]

On 2/2/2019 at 4:15 PM, dallysingh101 said:

 Besides blokes can hardly castigate females for drinking when they do it themselves. 

theres a hidden wisdom in traditions that 'liberal thinkers' and 'people who believe in equality' seem to not register.   maybe because they think people were just dumb for thousands of years whereas todays people are more 'enlightened'.  sorry, but no:

https://healthcare.utah.edu/the-scope/shows.php?shows=0_0tynytdu

alcohol increases sexual desire in women:

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/alcohol-can-boost-womens-sex-drive-1425970.html

whereas as in men it actually kills libido, acting more like a sedative.

hence why traditionally, women don't drink at public events in indian culture.

stop pretending men and women are the same.  they are not.  they are biologically and physiologically different.

[MisterrSingh]

4 hours ago, Unknownlost said:

What about the mixed race religion children who or what will they follow or choose ?

Two choices: 

1. Nothing.

2. The faith / beliefs of the dominant parent.