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I'm speechless! Gobsmacked      so he got married to another sikh man? But his in laws didn't want the community to know that their son is gay and that it's a gay wedding so they told this guy to dress as a bride?  

You really can't make this stuff up 

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It's like that weird thing apnay do, when they obsess about what other apnay think and get majorly insecure about it. I bet most of you lot on this forum are from families like this. lol 

This article is so outlandish I almost find it hard to actually believe. But then I know how weird certain types of families can be about some bull5hit notions of izzat they have, so on the other hand I'm like....hmmmmm

Is this for real though or is the gay man being a little dramatic...as they can get...

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His mother-in-law also told him he was too fat and wouldn't let him to use the toilet so he would often wet himself. 

 

What is going on with the other bloke (and his family) in the story???

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But four months later he found out his husband was set to marry a woman and he tried to kill himself.

He said: 'I put my wedding outfit back on and I went down to the river and slashed my wrists. I felt like they made me his wife so I was going to kill the wife.'

 

So they know their boy is partial to a bit of gand and they're still marrying him off to a women!!! WTH!! This family should be exposed before they ruin the girls life. 

This bit sounds like a queen doing drama....

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And he said he was treated like a slave in the home and was made to do 18 hours of chores a day.

Forget This gay guy, it's the actions of the other gay guy's family that shock me. How does a family get weird like that? 

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22 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

Either too much God (in the sense of whatever their perception of religion happens to be) or not enough God, lol.

I think you're well off the mark there. From what I see, these types of 'families' care more about what flaannaah timkaah in their social circles think, than anything about God. 

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13 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

I think you're well off the mark there. From what I see, these types of 'families' care more about what flaannaah timkaah in their social circles think, than anything about God. 

I think most south Asian families are like that though. They are very concerned about what people will say or think.

Very strange behaviour. 

But I think to an extent it is good! Because without care for image people end up having no sharam and start doing all sorts of shameless things. 

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If you have no care for what people think of you then you do end up becoming shameless. 

We have this very gorafied Punjabi family live down our road and the mum and dad both get drunk and start swearing at each other in Punjabi in the middle of the road at midnight!  Their son also hosts massive house parties and his mum ends up getting drunk with all his mates  LOL! 

Iv seen the son bring random goris back to his house on weekends. While the daughter is in a open relationship with a paki.

Absolutely no sharam

That's what happens when you dont care about image 

So to an extent it's good to care.

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14 hours ago, puzzled said:

If you have no care for what people think of you then you do end up becoming shameless. 

We have this very gorafied Punjabi family live down our road and the mum and dad both get drunk and start swearing at each other in Punjabi in the middle of the road at midnight!  Their son also hosts massive house parties and his mum ends up getting drunk with all his mates  LOL! 

Iv seen the son bring random goris back to his house on weekends. While the daughter is in a open relationship with a paki.

Absolutely no sharam

That's what happens when you dont care about image 

So to an extent it's good to care.

I hear you and I agree. I'm talking about going weird with it like in the OP. 

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