Our sisters that wear keski but cut facial hair/wax

[Guest Guest_Singh]

As a male, I realize that this might be insensitive but let me preface by saying that a male cannot understand what it is like to be a female in today's society so if an Amritdhari bibi is cutting her facial hair/wax, it doesn't bother me. It's the bibi's decision.

However, what does bother me is if that same bibi is wearing a keski. I don't understand the logic here?

Either:

1) cut your facial hair/wax and don't cover your hair on top of it; OR
2) don't do the above and wear a keski.

Sorry if I have offended anyone. Thanks. 

[puzzled]

What about the the men who keep their hair and wear paghs but trim their beards ... 

So if they can do it and it's accepted then I guess women can too ... 

[Guest GuestSingh]

7 minutes ago, puzzled said:

What about the the men who keep their hair and wear paghs but trim their beards ... 

So if they can do it and it's accepted then I guess women can too ... 

not if theyre amritdhari and the same goes for men - neither one of em should be harming a single hair on their body if theyve amritchak and given their head to guruji...

[Wicked Warrior]

No idea about now, but a good few years ago, it was in vogue for women to get laser treatment before taking amrit ie they did it specifically so they didn’t have to worry about facial hair once they’d taken amrit. 

[Ranjeet01]

3 hours ago, puzzled said:

What about the the men who keep their hair and wear paghs but trim their beards ... 

So if they can do it and it's accepted then I guess women can too ... 

Not quite.

Keski wearing women are Amritdhari women. Comparing them with an Amritdhari men is more of a proper comparison. 

[Guest Guest_Singh]

3 hours ago, puzzled said:

What about the the men who keep their hair and wear paghs but trim their beards ... 

So if they can do it and it's accepted then I guess women can too ... 

I understand the premise but I don't know of a single amritdhari man who trims his beard.

If there are men out there like that, then yes same logic applies. 

[Guest Guest_Singh]

3 hours ago, Wicked Warrior said:

No idea about now, but a good few years ago, it was in vogue for women to get laser treatment before taking amrit ie they did it specifically so they didn’t have to worry about facial hair once they’d taken amrit. 

I was not aware of this. I suppose this is a good compromise but I still find it really strange.

Again as a male, I'll never understand the perspective of a female. It is definitely tougher to be a female in today's modern society versus a male.  

[Guest paapiman]

7 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

not if theyre amritdhari and the same goes for men - neither one of em should be harming a single hair on their body if theyve amritchak and given their head to guruji...

They are not harming the hair - they are actually murdering it.

Kes kattal deserves the death sentence as it is literally murder.

Anyone who cuts their hair is a Hindu in my opinion

[Amit12]

10 hours ago, puzzled said:

What about the the men who keep their hair and wear paghs but trim their beards ... 

So if they can do it and it's accepted then I guess women can too ... 

Accepted by whom ? 

Who has the authority ? Who can judge ? 

[RajKaregaKhalsa1]

10 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

not if theyre amritdhari and the same goes for men - neither one of em should be harming a single hair on their body if theyve amritchak and given their head to guruji...

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ

Exactly, It is a Bajjar Kurhet to cut, trim, dye your hair and means you become a patit and have to go Pesh in front of the Panj Pyare and be blessed with Amrit again.

ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ