You just proved my point.
I know what lavaan means. You are an honourable person.
But because you follow the maryada and approach it in the right manner does not mean others will.
It is this one thing that is the flaw of us well-meaning Sikhs.
Yeah let's marry all our daughters to gays. Do you even know what the laavaan mean?
"Ajeet's wife is moving more rural Punjab from an impoverished background to a middle class well to do family in a cosmopolitan city is a step up for her."
Yeah that's not based on maya.
The western way was also one of pragmatism until recently relatively speaking. "Love" seems to have crept into the equation around the time society was entering the period where individualistic feelings and desires were seen to be preferable to reason and foresight. And here we are. But wait... there's more! 😁