Requesting Advice

[illi]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji kee fateh!

 

Sangatji I need guidance on a issue I am facing in my life currently,  my younger brother as fallen into depression and get into very sad/angry mood and I fear the worst.

Is there anything I can do other than talk to him and get him professional advice from outside, I mostly rely on Bani and if someone can please help me out as in how I can help me by taking his dukh away using bani, it would be appreciate. 

 

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji kee fateh!

[Redoptics]

1 hour ago, illi said:

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji kee fateh!

 

Sangatji I need guidance on a issue I am facing in my life currently,  my younger brother as fallen into depression and get into very sad/angry mood and I fear the worst.

Is there anything I can do other than talk to him and get him professional advice from outside, I mostly rely on Bani and if someone can please help me out as in how I can help me by taking his dukh away using bani, it would be appreciate. 

 

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji kee fateh!

Sukhmani Sahib always helps me when I am down.

 

[illi]

3 minutes ago, Redoptics said:

Sukhmani Sahib always helps me when I am down.

 

Satabachanji, I will try my best to read and follow sukhmani sahib and do ardass so my brother gets better, really appreciate your reply!

[Redoptics]

29 minutes ago, illi said:

Satabachanji, I will try my best to read and follow sukhmani sahib and do ardass so my brother gets better, really appreciate your reply!

Is there any chance of yoy getting your brother to listen and read it?

[Guest Singh]

There’s a shabad in bani along the lines of ‘rakh leho bhai mere ko’ which you can try reading for your brothers wellbeing 

[Guest guest]

you can talk to him about how he feels and why he feels that way, then you can find lines from Gurbani that correspond (correct) his wrong thinking.

you can write a few down for him and he can use them as affirmations.  

also, encourage him to be awake and sitting by a window before and as the sun rises.  this induces chardi kala.  (not to look at the sun, but to experience the change from darkness to light).

[Guest daas guest singh]

WGJK WGJF

Make him do dukh bhanjani sahib paath prefrebly,if not you can do it in front of him and make him listen to it

keep the faith

sat srii akaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal

[illi]

17 hours ago, Redoptics said:

Is there any chance of yoy getting your brother to listen and read it?

Honestly he won't, he has become a nastik and given up on god, he says there is a power up there. 

 

[Redoptics]

Play it while he is sleeping?

[Preeet]

Vaheguru ji Ka Khalsa
Vaheguru ji Ki Fateh, ji

First of all, Im sorry that he is experiencing that. I would suggest to reccomend him to do seva at the gurdwara ji as a daily routine (like washing bhartans, jodheyan di seva etc). Im sure it will help. Tell him to practice Sri Sukhmani Sahib ji and Sri Nitnem Sahib ji daily.. Tell him to try at least, & make sure he does Ardas ji at the end of reading paath. Make sure he practices  daya, satya, (full) sucham, bhakti.  Bhull chuk maaf kijye!