So, do you think it would break a young Sikh's heart who's trying to find their way in life when their classmate or college roommate tells them that they are going to an everlasting hell just because they aren't a Christian?
ਜੋ ਜਾਨੈ ਮੈ ਜੋਬਨਵੰਤੁ ॥
ਸੋ ਹੋਵਤ ਬਿਸਟਾ ਕਾ ਜੰਤੁ ॥
One who deems himself to have the beauty of youth,
Shall become a maggot in manure.
Sukhmani Sahib, p278
You're not supposed to be proud of your body or beauty. That goes for both men and women.