Pregnant

[Guest GuestSingh]

On 7/28/2019 at 7:56 PM, pavitarsk said:

What a liar.

 

On 7/28/2019 at 10:16 PM, Guest Khalsa Raj said:

Troll

 

posts like these r always suspicious.

is it true? or is it a sad sulah/isaai tryin to cause further mistrust among our boys n girls? or is it a devious apna who either has a weird fetish for whitey/non-panjabis or even bitter experiences from the past n sees this as a way to take revenge?

[Guest Guest]

7 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

 

posts like these r always suspicious.

is it true? or is it a sad sulah/isaai tryin to cause further mistrust among our boys n girls? or is it a devious apna who either has a weird fetish for whitey/non-panjabis or even bitter experiences from the past n sees this as a way to take revenge?

What’s wrong with apne going for someone who’s white or non Punjabi? What a racist remark. You should be ashamed of yourself you bandhar

[Guest Thug Life]

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/newsbeat-49150753

[Guest GuestSingh]

14 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

What’s wrong with apne going for someone who’s white or non Punjabi? What a racist remark. You should be ashamed of yourself you bandhar

bandhar? u the same guest thts cryin about their long hairs? if anyone sounds like one here its you.

n theres nothin racist about my post. maybe wen ur older n more culturally aware ull realise the wider impact itll have on sikhi.

[Not2Cool2Argue]

On 7/29/2019 at 10:30 AM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Firstly I’m not lying! I was in a relationship with my bf when I was a moni, I got pregnant when I was a moni, I took Amrit shortly after but didn’t realise I was pregnant until after taking it. I’m still with him, just because I’m Amritdhari doesn’t mean I have to dump him, I mean we’re gonna have a child together. It seems it’s ok for a Singh to be with a moni but not ok for a Singhni to be with a mona. How hypocritical! 

This post didnt appear until after we already replied. Its a good there was no kurehit involved. But you must get married. And if your husband can take amrit, that would be best. 

[Akalifauj]

On 7/29/2019 at 10:30 AM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Firstly I’m not lying! I was in a relationship with my bf when I was a moni, I got pregnant when I was a moni, I took Amrit shortly after but didn’t realise I was pregnant until after taking it. I’m still with him, just because I’m Amritdhari doesn’t mean I have to dump him, I mean we’re gonna have a child together. It seems it’s ok for a Singh to be with a moni but not ok for a Singhni to be with a mona. How hypocritical! 

This is one of those confused western rednecks stuck in a desi body.  She still holds public actions and views higher than Gurbani teachings.   You have not taken amrit.  Taking amrit means giving the mind to the Guru and the Guru will guide you on decisions in your life.

Then again this sounds like a made up post trying to push feminist ideas here.  

[ipledgeblue]

you should follow grihast dharam

[Guest guest]

On 7/26/2019 at 3:13 PM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

I don’t know how to approach the Panj Pyare about this and will they tell me to split up from my boyfriend and tell me to abort the child or give it up for adoption? 

^this is what makes me think it is a troll.  "Panj Pyare" with capitals only refers to the first/historical Panj Pyare.  I'm not amritdhari, but other amritdharis on here don't do that.

anyway, in case it is real, i seriously doubt they will tell you to abort or give it up for adoption.

[Guest guest]

On 7/30/2019 at 7:19 PM, Guest Guest said:

What’s wrong with apne going for someone who’s white or non Punjabi? What a racist remark. You should be ashamed of yourself you bandhar

a lot is wrong with it.  its trashy and uncultured for one.  selling out your race/religion etc.

spare us the western "what a racist remark" bullsh*t.  you're the one who can't tolerate someone having respect for their own race/culture.

 

[Guest guest]

On 7/29/2019 at 6:30 PM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Firstly I’m not lying! I was in a relationship with my bf when I was a moni, I got pregnant when I was a moni, I took Amrit shortly after but didn’t realise I was pregnant until after taking it. I’m still with him, just because I’m Amritdhari doesn’t mean I have to dump him, I mean we’re gonna have a child together. It seems it’s ok for a Singh to be with a moni but not ok for a Singhni to be with a mona. How hypocritical! 

so you thought it would be ok to keep dating after Amrit, before you took Amrit?  what exactly do you think taking Amrit implies?  why did you take it?

and it's not hypocritical at all.  man plays the dominant role in relationship and sex.  woman plays the passive role.  since you are pregnant i think you know how sex works, i needn't explain the woman submits to the man and the man inserts and then its over when the man is done.  then the man just walks away.

so for a woman, who acts passively in relationship/sex,  it is WORSE than for a man, who at least is dominant and not the passive.

im not suggesting you dump him.  i suggesting you many him right away.