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Need some advice please. 

I’ve fallen pregnant by my mona boyfriend but I’m amritdhari. I haven’t told my family but we want to keep the baby as I don’t believe in abortion. 

I don’t know how to approach the Panj Pyare about this and will they tell me to split up from my boyfriend and tell me to abort the child or give it up for adoption? 

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On 7/26/2019 at 3:13 PM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Need some advice please. 

I’ve fallen pregnant by my mona boyfriend but I’m amritdhari. I haven’t told my family but we want to keep the baby as I don’t believe in abortion. 

I don’t know how to approach the Panj Pyare about this and will they tell me to split up from my boyfriend and tell me to abort the child or give it up for adoption? 

Is it really possible for a goat to impregnate a female lion?  

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3 hours ago, pavitarsk said:

Is it really possible for a goat to impregnate a female lion?  

Are you seriously so stupid ? its the same species. Sorry to break it to you but amritdhari is supposed to make you a better,humble human , not a species altogether 

@OP , what were you doing with a mona guy as a boyfriend if you're amritdhari ??

if you fake amritdharis can't live up to the standards of rehit maryada, why even get initiated in the first place ? to appear cool ?

to keep or abort is your decision but it seems like a lose-lose situation unfortunately . :( 

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Firstly I’m not lying! I was in a relationship with my bf when I was a moni, I got pregnant when I was a moni, I took Amrit shortly after but didn’t realise I was pregnant until after taking it. I’m still with him, just because I’m Amritdhari doesn’t mean I have to dump him, I mean we’re gonna have a child together. It seems it’s ok for a Singh to be with a moni but not ok for a Singhni to be with a mona. How hypocritical! 

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।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।

I think you should try to get your boyfriend into Sikhi because then Anand Kaaraj can be done. However with that being said this act that you have committed can't be taken lightly. Remember it is a Bajjar Kurhet and a lot Seva will need to be done. (But remember Guru Sahib is very Dyaalu so the paap can be forgiven after going pesh, and by singing more Paath, Kirtan, Naam)

A few lessons that need to be learned:

- a Gursikh can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend

- Dhan Guru Maharaaj has blessed the Panth with the Kachhera. It has a Naala (string to form a knot) as a reminder to not take part in lustful actions. Remember the Panj Kakkars are not just symbols for the look of a Gursikh but have both a physical and spiritual benefits for our Jeevans. Find out about the benefits if you don't know about them already.

।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ।।ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫ਼ਤਹਿ।

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On 7/26/2019 at 7:13 AM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Need some advice please. 

I’ve fallen pregnant by my mona boyfriend but I’m amritdhari. I haven’t told my family but we want to keep the baby as I don’t believe in abortion. 

I don’t know how to approach the Panj Pyare about this and will they tell me to split up from my boyfriend and tell me to abort the child or give it up for adoption? 

If you want a good life for the child. Please make sure it has a father. Get married. 

And you do have to go to the panj pyare. As you have committed a kurehit. The panj are most likely going to advice you to take amrit again along with your babys dad. And then you guys will be advised to get married. Plus you will be given some punishment for doing a kurehit.

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On 7/28/2019 at 7:56 PM, pavitarsk said:

What a liar.

 

On 7/28/2019 at 10:16 PM, Guest Khalsa Raj said:

Troll

 

posts like these r always suspicious.

is it true? or is it a sad sulah/isaai tryin to cause further mistrust among our boys n girls? or is it a devious apna who either has a weird fetish for whitey/non-panjabis or even bitter experiences from the past n sees this as a way to take revenge?

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7 hours ago, GuestSingh said:

 

posts like these r always suspicious.

is it true? or is it a sad sulah/isaai tryin to cause further mistrust among our boys n girls? or is it a devious apna who either has a weird fetish for whitey/non-panjabis or even bitter experiences from the past n sees this as a way to take revenge?

What’s wrong with apne going for someone who’s white or non Punjabi? What a racist remark. You should be ashamed of yourself you bandhar

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14 hours ago, Guest Guest said:

What’s wrong with apne going for someone who’s white or non Punjabi? What a racist remark. You should be ashamed of yourself you bandhar

bandhar? u the same guest thts cryin about their long hairs? if anyone sounds like one here its you.

n theres nothin racist about my post. maybe wen ur older n more culturally aware ull realise the wider impact itll have on sikhi.

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On 7/29/2019 at 10:30 AM, Guest Gupt Kaur said:

Firstly I’m not lying! I was in a relationship with my bf when I was a moni, I got pregnant when I was a moni, I took Amrit shortly after but didn’t realise I was pregnant until after taking it. I’m still with him, just because I’m Amritdhari doesn’t mean I have to dump him, I mean we’re gonna have a child together. It seems it’s ok for a Singh to be with a moni but not ok for a Singhni to be with a mona. How hypocritical! 

This post didnt appear until after we already replied. Its a good there was no kurehit involved. But you must get married. And if your husband can take amrit, that would be best. 

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