healthy competition is fine but when you stop talking and get really violent over the joint khoo in the fields and the wall between the houses then that is a serious problem. its jealousy and greed. 2 men from my mum shreek were about to start a fight with hammers and other farming tools in the fields luckily my mums brother got there and stopped them. things get really serious there
yh thaiya chachiya are the worse they want to hog everything for their own kids, they ruin the whole joint dynamic of the family.
my thia and chacha fell out and built a wall between their houses, their wives then used to get their kids to argue as well. lol no joke but one day while my thaye was out, my chachi came around and destroyed my thayis chulla with a sledge hammer! my thayi then rang us and was crying on the phone and said that she had to ask the neighbors for roti! like what the hell were we supposed to do all the way from the uk!!! these women are so venomous towards each other
Yes I am aware of Shareeka.
I guess there is nothing wrong in some healthy competition and being inspired to improve yourself.
Personally speaking, I have no problem with my Thaiyas kids or Chachas kids doing better than me.
May they be prosperous in their endeavours.
When I look at the culprits of this kind of thing, it is usually some female in the background like a jealous thaiee or chachi.
If there is one thing I have learnt in life is that in general be a bit less trustful in your non-blood female relatives.
do you know about shareeka? people compete more with their shareeks than with anyone one else, it is so deep routed and obsessive! people will put themselves in debt just to compete with their shreeka! it plays such a huge part in society there and is so deep routed, i really cant get my head around it! i understand it, but the obsession that they have i really dont understand that! it part of the fabric of society.
but this competing with your shareeks isnt a new thing it goes decades back probably over a 100 years back
I agreed with this fox guy when he appeared on question time cos not everything these crazy far left feminists or muslim activists say is classed as "white male privilege".
but now he has shown his true White male privilege and far right white racist views when he complained about a sikh soldier being featured in the new movie 1917 as "forced diversity" in the movie industry. Had he had a brain or some intelligence he would have realised 83,000+ turbanned sikh soldiers died fighting shoulder to shoulder with allied forces in both world wars defending the UK in foreign lands they had no personal conflict with. It shows these white racists are trying to go mainstream these days aided by stupid views of far left crazypot idiots causing people to become more tolerant to the alternative opposite views.