Upper lip hair removal

[Guest Kesaanbeadbi]

Im not sure what to say. I myself am a female. But i get put off when i see a female parcharik that has visibly removed hair on the upper lip. It is hard to understand. I know these bebeyaan have kamai and are doing seva but i just cant accept the beadbi. That is why i had to make.gupt.topic as this has been bothering me. It is popping up everywhere. Facial hair bleaching and removal. Its sad. I wish if the women parchariks are having trouble they should share their journey??? Im not sure. Its one of those things that you are a walking parchar of sikhi. Whoever sees parchariks do this start to think if they do it, it must be acceptable.

Very hard to understand please share your views. Because i cant share or out these ppl publicly i wont share photos. But its obvious 

[Guest Seva Singh]

SSA Sister

The reason for it is that in all our portrayals of women in Asia through paintings, portraits now to newspapers, films, social media the female is presented as facial hairless which means subconsciously men view women like this and the bulk of women view hair on the upper lip as masculine which is probably why.

Forgive my ignorance but what line speaks of hair removal or is it broadly the removal of ANY hair so I can better understand where you are coming from?

I myself am mona, (I am on a journey to becoming a full Sikh) and I see some Sikh brothers with turbans yet shaven (clearly) beards - dont understand that at all.  

[puzzled]

On 11/8/2019 at 12:20 PM, Guest Seva Singh said:

I myself am mona, (I am on a journey to becoming a full Sikh) and I see some Sikh brothers with turbans yet shaven (clearly) beards - dont understand that at all.

Do ardaas before guru sahib bro and ask guru ji to bless you so you can keep your kesh and dhari    it will happen     ask guru sahib from your heart