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I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. 

What should I do?

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I think very few trans women expect this. Most live in the fear of murder still. To the OP you don't date period right?  This might have been a less offensive answer, but end of day trans people should, and usually do, recognize the world doesn't cater to them. Like most causes, initially started for basic human rights of the group, this cause has been co-opted. 

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3 hours ago, sikhingthetruth said:

I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. 

What should I do?

Is this serious? 

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6 hours ago, sikhingthetruth said:

I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. 

What should I do?

If this is all that happened, and there isn't a load of email/phone/text calls between you both, I'd consider going to the old bill and telling them and getting him/her charged with harassment. Or getting a restraining order. 

 

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On 11/24/2019 at 10:52 AM, sikhingthetruth said:

I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. 

How did she find out you were a pervert ?  To get that information about you she must have been talking to people who know you well. In a way, that is a form of stalking and harrassment so I think you do have a good case against her.

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If this is all that happened, and there isn't a load of email/phone/text calls between you both, I'd consider going to the old bill and telling them and getting him/her charged with harassment. Or getting a restraining order. 

Yes that's good advice. I think the best thing you can do right now is to get the fact that you're being chased by a cross-dressing transvestite  in the newspapers, courts and all over social media. 

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On 11/24/2019 at 10:52 AM, sikhingthetruth said:

I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. 

What should I do?

just tell them what happened, like you did to us here.  they will understand.

don't worry about it.

maybe he/she is suffering from depression or bad experiences with others.  don't take it personally.

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On 11/26/2019 at 4:08 PM, Guest guest said:

just tell them what happened, like you did to us here.  they will understand.

don't worry about it.

maybe he/she is suffering from depression or bad experiences with others.  don't take it personally.

report it as harassment.

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what is a 'transgender woman'. Be truthful. It is a man. 

what is 'trans-phobia', a fear of trans. 

Sex is biological.

Gender is a person's concept of themselves.

This is a non issue if u knew the correct meanings, easy to put this to bed. Pun intended.

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