sexting

[Guest loved up]

As a married amritdhari couple is it wrong to send lustful/explicit messages to each other. We want to keep our flame alight. I just don't know if it's against sikhi...? 

[S1ngh]

Bhai Sahib, I see it as kaam. Guru sahib clearly tell his Sikhs to control the kaam.

[kidsama]

lmao. Are you really amritdhari? haha. 

[puzzled]

Lmao  you wanna keep your flame alight    haha! 

 

[Guest daas guest singh]

firstly yo peeps good to see u back after a while.Remember me people or bhul gaye mainu.edhdhan kidhdhan bhul sakde mainu .lmao.

Now let me get to anwering ur question good sir,

ok so firslty yeaaa  sexting ,explicit and lustful messages are one of the biggest examples ofKaam in the mordern world innit ?

second to keep flame alight? seriously ? is that the only thing u gonna do to keep ur "flame" alight like come on .As  an amritdhari u shud know what constutes of kaam.and also u can do other things to keep ur "flame" alight .for ex:go somewhere ,travel,have dinner together walk in a pask,etc,etc,etc,etc.Try to control ur Kaam as guru maharaj instructed all sikhs to.

bhul chuk maaf krni.

GURBAR AKAAL.

REGARDS ,

Daas guest singh

[BhForce]

6 hours ago, puzzled said:

Lmao  you wanna keep your flame alight    haha! 

It's OK to share all sorts of stuff with your female coworkers, but it's not OK for a married couple to do so?

[BhForce]

13 hours ago, kidsama said:

lmao. Are you really amritdhari? haha. 

What is that supposed to mean? They are married. What's the problem? 

[puzzled]

3 hours ago, BhForce said:

It's OK to share all sorts of stuff with your female coworkers, but it's not OK for a married couple to do so?

I didnt say it was not ok  it's just funny lol 

People just have these ideas that amritdharis live differently and dont do things like sexting     everyone does the same sh1t   regardless.      that's why it's funny coz most people wouldn't expect amritdharis to do that. 

[BhForce]

5 minutes ago, puzzled said:

People just have these ideas that amritdharis live differently and dont do things like sexting     everyone does the same sh1t   regardless.      that's why it's fun y coz most people wouldn't expect and amritdhari to do that. 

There's a world of difference in engaging in sexuality being married vs. not.

It's like saying "haha, I wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat". Well, you wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat food they stole. It's OK to eat food you bought.

[puzzled]

1 hour ago, BhForce said:

There's a world of difference in engaging in sexuality being married vs. not.

It's like saying "haha, I wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat". Well, you wouldn't expect amritdharis to eat food they stole. It's OK to eat food you bought.

It's not the married or not married, it's the sexting part    you just wouldn't think amritdharis are into that stuff. 

You would presume that self control is an important part of being amritdhari. What if you have bani and listen to simran on the same phone ? And then send naked pics of yourself and sexy texts to your wife on the same phone?  Is that ok? 

But like I said   everyone does the same stuff these days anyway.  Its only the presumption that amritdharis dont do that kind of stuff that makes the question funny