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On 3/18/2020 at 6:21 PM, dallysingh101 said:

Is that a tea towel in the top left thumbnail? Because I have one that looks exactly like that but smaller? 

She  said in the vid that she used everyday scarves for some dastars,dastar material for others,and again parna material for one of the dastars.

so that answers some of ur question innit

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On 3/16/2020 at 9:27 PM, Guest Sikh88 said:

That isn’t an issue. Sikh women who wear dastaars in the traditional Sikh way are mistaken for Muslims on a regular basis, even BY Muslim women. This doesn’t mean we find a new way of tying it, just to avoid mistaken identity, unless that’s what the person wants. A tiny, itty bitty percent of amritdharis tie dastaars in the same way as was originally introduced. These people are nihungs.

I don’t think it matters whether or not it looks African. In fact, a few Muslim women started tying a “dastaar” after seeing that it looks great on my sister. She’s not gonna stop just because Muslim women start to wear it like that.

If you look at how Sikhs tied dastaars 100 - 150 years ago, it’s similar to the orange, green & beige (top right) dastaars seen in the thumbnail of the YouTube video here.

We shouldn’t get worked up about. The dastaars look great, and people will mistaken you for a Muslim, but that’s your opportunity to explain yourself. Peace out.

Thnx for the support.

I appreciate it.

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On 3/18/2020 at 2:03 PM, jkvlondon said:

 

it is different if you are wearing a proper gol dastar with jooda at dasam duar and someone copying (muslim women are told wearing hijab this way is immodest as neck is uncovered BTW) than tying your jooda behind your head and wearing a patka over it which is directly copying muslim garb as patkey are NOT sikh invention but muslim one , or wearing jooda to the back and tying dastar leaning greatly to the back .  I was taught Jooda of kesh and Kangha was shingar of dasam duar by Bhai Jarnail SIngh ji who was Panj Piare for so many of UK sikh sangat since the 1970s. The other things is plastering of face with makeup , wearing of earrings with dastar , it is not Sikh style but picking up other faiths habits forgetting out own . If you don't stop the creeping in of others cultures where will ours be maintained ?

yea patke were never sikh,i dunno why many people wear them and accept them as sikh ,especially the young generation an midlle aged young men

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On 3/18/2020 at 11:34 AM, Akalifauj said:

 Open your ears and listen to Gurbani.  Close your polluted eyes and plug your nose.  Even the devi and devta who fell to lust are laughing at your miserable state.  Your mind is dragged around like a wild beast by maya.  The Guru is everywhere and in everyone, even in the homosexual! Why didn't you see him tying a tall turban and stepping into the world wrestling ring to fight the 5 theives?  Why did you fall victim to them?  Your Guru is the 5 theives.  You worship them as you offer them your soul as a sacrifice.

You may sit close to the Guru, even read Gurbani but you will be far from the Guru due to your worship of maya.

Mkay.......and how does maya come in between a dastar thread and like i hv said quite a few times i am not homophobic

 

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this is a new one she posted like its pretty damn good and its a gol dastar so no "its anti - gurmat bleh bleh bleh " arguments ,okay?

i tried it too ,but with the ears covered.i shall be posting a photo soon 

On 3/18/2020 at 2:03 PM, jkvlondon said:

 

it is different if you are wearing a proper gol dastar with jooda at dasam duar and someone copying (muslim women are told wearing hijab this way is immodest as neck is uncovered BTW) than tying your jooda behind your head and wearing a patka over it which is directly copying muslim garb as patkey are NOT sikh invention but muslim one , or wearing jooda to the back and tying dastar leaning greatly to the back .  I was taught Jooda of kesh and Kangha was shingar of dasam duar by Bhai Jarnail SIngh ji who was Panj Piare for so many of UK sikh sangat since the 1970s. The other things is plastering of face with makeup , wearing of earrings with dastar , it is not Sikh style but picking up other faiths habits forgetting out own . If you don't stop the creeping in of others cultures where will ours be maintained ?

 also who said anything about wearing makeup or earrings

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i always wondered how rajasthanis tied theirs lol.   rajasthanis are strong tough people  if sikhi spreads there they would be a great addition to sikhs. A lot of rajasthanis look similar to rural punjabis they have that robust look to them, same with haryanvis. 

 

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39 minutes ago, puzzled said:

i always wondered how rajasthanis tied theirs lol.   rajasthanis are strong tough people  if sikhi spreads there they would be a great addition to sikhs. A lot of rajasthanis look similar to rural punjabis they have that robust look to them, same with haryanvis. 

 

but they haranvi and less so rajasthani could never maintain the clean chaste mind that Gurpita ji said is necessary towards others women, daughters , their culture seems to promote lecherous behaviour towards women .

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3 hours ago, puzzled said:

i always wondered how rajasthanis tied theirs lol.   rajasthanis are strong tough people  if sikhi spreads there they would be a great addition to sikhs. A lot of rajasthanis look similar to rural punjabis they have that robust look to them, same with haryanvis. 

 

You keep going on about Panjabis, but if we look at SIkh history, there was a point pre1699, when Sikhs were coming from all over to join the Khalsa battles. The panj piaray are examples of this, as are sakhis relating to Sikhs from what is now Afghanistan coming too.

Really, there is no such thing as some ethnic Panjabi genotype. As much as certain caste obsessed people like to go on as well, there is nothing remotely close to any sort of racial homogeneity in between Sikhs of Panjab.  

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2 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

but they haranvi and less so rajasthani could never maintain the clean chaste mind that Gurpita ji said is necessary towards others women, daughters , their culture seems to promote lecherous behaviour towards women .

But people and communities can change. Look at Punjab now, females are going colleges and universities. Many females now work as nurses, teachers etc   females are riding around on those small motorbikes now that they call scooters. I was reading this Pakistani Punjabi man blog on his visit to India Punjab and he said he was surprised to see so many females riding scooters in India Punjab another thing he said was that unlike in Pak Punjab the men in India Punjab dont stare at women. All of this is true, even aunties are now riding around on those scooters, and apart from young men checking girls out, which is common behavior among young men globally, you dont see men staring at women as if they've never seen a woman b4. In pinds many women are now the sirpenches, many pinds now have a woman in the panchyaat to bring up female issues in the pind when the panchyaat gathers. My mami from nxt door was chosen to represent women in the panchyaat and she does it. So things are changing. 

These other communities can change too. Iv never been Hayrana or Rajasthan but my mum has, and yes socially they have some catching up to do. My nanis parents were from Haryana Rotak and Hisar and my nanis mamas sons still live there and my mum went to visit them. She said Haryana looks identical to Punjab, same pinds, houses, villages, people look identical to Punjabis. But culture is a bit different, the people there are like old school jatts. The men walk around in the pinds with axes on their shoulders and wooden polls. Inside the houses they have swords hung on the walls and riffles etc  all of this is fine, but weapons need to be in the hands of the right man, if not then the outcome can be nasty. Many of the women are not allowed to show their faces and they cover their faces with chunnis. If the woman wants to do that then thats fine but if the society imposes that on women then that is not right. Other than then that everyone understands Punjabi in Haryana, their Hindi has Punjabi influence.

As for Rajasthan, iv never been either but my mum has because my mums brothers wife is from a punjabi family who have been living in Rajasthan for many decades, they own land there  so my mum went there with her brother to her brothers in laws. Culturally Rajasthan is very different, she said the women seem a lot more suppressed there and are just dotting around following their husbands they arent allowed to show their faces either and have to veil themselves. The Punjabis there get a long with the local Rajasthanis really well and live like proper neighbors. Most Punjabis there have settled down with the farming communities of Rajasthan. When my mum went there the Rajasthani neighbors came to see them. She said none of the women were talking and you couldn't even see their faces! they just sat there quite. When the husbands got up the wives got up when the husbands sat the wives sat, it was that kind of thing!   The men walk at the front there while the women follow.  Its kinda sad though ...

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2 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

but they haranvi and less so rajasthani could never maintain the clean chaste mind that Gurpita ji said is necessary towards others women, daughters , their culture seems to promote lecherous behaviour towards women .

Well, my family antecedents according to family tradition is Rajasthani, but the original immigrant to Panjab in my lineage must have been a good few centuries ago because my grandpa reeled out his ancestors going back over two centuries (if not more) who've been in the ancestral pend. 

If anyone has a problem with chaste minds in Panjab, it'll be the stock you come from. Read CP and see for yourself what Guru ji has written about them. And you're old enough to know that the menfolk made such a rep for themselves that people would explicitly tell their daughters not to cut through the khet because.......bwaaaaah!! haa! haa! haaa! "Bechow! Menu Bechow!" Mwaaaah. Hahaha. Bwaaaahhhh. 

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