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9 hours ago, DelhiTurbanator said:

 

I have made my mind that I certainly will not marry a sikh girl, I will only marry a non Sikh woman. I talked with my parents, my parents were disappointed but agreed in the end. I don't care what society thinks about me but am not gonna waste my time and energy in finding a "gursikh woman" who genuinely loves sikhi, well that is as rare as a unicorn? There is no need of this when you're surrounded by countless non Sikh ladies who love a sardar and see's him as a potential bf/husband. 

If you have decided to marry a non Sikh woman please keep a watchful eye over your children to make sure they will be raised as Sikhs.  I have seen cases where often the non Sikh woman insists on raising their children without Sikhism or cuts a deal with the father that we can raise one kid as a Sikh but another kid as a Hindu as is the case of the famous singer Arijit whose father is Sikh and mother is Hindu. They raised Arijits older brother as a Sikh while Arijit was raised as a Hindu.

If Sikhi is not passed on to all your children then your experiment of marrying a non Sikh woman will be a failure.

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8 hours ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

Interesting. I also live in maharashtra. mumbai to be precise.what about you ?

also does your kakkars , esp kirpan ever seen suspiciously by fellow MBBS students ? how do you manage ? 

In OT in future how will you manage a metallic kirpan. I am just wondering . Do non-sikh guys ever made fun of you or your kachhera . I remember some guys used to joke on a sikh guy's kachhera is so big .

Good bro. but make sure you bring sikhi to her, not the other way. And make sure she teaches gursikhi to your children.

Am originally from Delhi and by Waheguruji's kirpa I was able to crack medical entrance exam and got seat in Nagpur. Am a final year MBBS student at GMC(Govt. Medical College Nagpur) Nagpur.

I never faced racism here, neither from girls nor from guys. There were non offensive jokes like punjabis drink patiala peg/alcohol to which I cleared their doubts that Sikhs don't drink or smoke, Sikhi is a religion and Punjabi is a culture. 

No one has ever joked on my kachhera or kirpaan. I explained all my classmates from day 1 that am amritdhari and these are 5 kakkars. I had no trouble with patients either except language bcoz some patients know only marathi.

Hanji veerji, I will definitely raise my kids as gursikhs, can't say that my wife would convert or not as its her choice to make, but its a universal fact that kids almost always follow father's religion provided father is religious and practicing his religion sincerely.

I didn't knew that marathi girls love punjabi guys so much, I was in 2nd year when one of my female classmates said that turban and beard looks so hot on punjabis and looks good only on Punjabis, marathi guys don't look good in beard. In my 3rd year, my junior(a muslim girl) asked me out for valentine as she was attracted by my personality. Although I have never dated anyone as my career is my priority at the moment but saabat surat sikhs have no trouble with women(atleast with non sikh women),  he could date Hindu/Muslim women if he wanted to. "Girls don't like beard" is false, absolutely false and a rumor spread by self hating Sikh women. Even those non Sikh women who don't like beard, love beard only on sikhs, non sikhs look bad in beard(as I gave example of my classmate above)

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12 minutes ago, Jonny101 said:

If you have decided to marry a non Sikh woman please keep a watchful eye over your children to make sure they will be raised as Sikhs.  I have seen cases where often the non Sikh woman insists on raising their children without Sikhism or cuts a deal with the father that we can raise one kid as a Sikh but another kid as a Hindu as is the case of the famous singer Arijit whose father is Sikh and mother is Hindu. They raised Arijits older brother as a Sikh while Arijit was raised as a Hindu.

If Sikhi is not passed on to all your children then your experiment of marrying a non Sikh woman will be a failure.

I know veerji that raising kids as gursikhs is extremely important and we are already just 1.5% indian population and loosing countless sikhs every year bcoz of sikh women marrying non sikh guys and converting to husbands religion. Any sikh marriage that leads to non sikh kids are complete garbage and "Silent genocide" of our community.

 

My 2 cousins married non sikh women. First one is keshdhari(not amritdhari) and he married his long term hindu girlfriend who has converted to sikhi after marriage and they have 1 son whom they are raising as proper sikh. My 2nd cousin is not that religious, he does wear turban but trims beard and drinks alcohol and he married a South Indian Christian girl. The girl didn't convert but they also have 1 son whom they named Zorawar singh and he is being raised as a keshdhari Sikh. They are settled in Dubai

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On 5/25/2020 at 10:41 AM, ChardikalaUK said:

It's all one way traffic. It's coming to the point when it feels like Sikhs are like that pathetic kid in the playground who is desperately giving out sweets to be liked by everyone else but everyone is actually just taking advantage of him and laughing at him behind his back.

That's a perfect analogy.

"Here, take my pocket money and my lunch, but please don't hit me. Are we friends, now?"

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17 minutes ago, puzzled said:

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I don't agree with this woman. Following rehat maryada or Guru Granth sahib ji "word by word", will only make a person a better Sikh and a better human being.  It takes courage and passion for sikhi to stand out of the crowd unlike her. She seems whitewashed by gora culture to spew venom against her community. Nothing new there are plenty of such pseudo feminists on twitter and plenty of white women taking amrit. Sikhi is the fastest growing religion in Australia.

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