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2 hours ago, AcceptinghisWill said:

Can your family assist further? Get some mutual people who know both sides and go over to speak to them? 

Theres no winners in divorces. Sadly its become so common. Its so easy to just call for splitting up as opposed to working out the issues. 

 

The vichole have been trying but they've blocked them off, changed their mobile numbers. We even tried contacting his aunties and uncles but they claim to be 'too modern' to get involved. I'm really hurt that not one person has stood up to say it's wrong that it's not only the boy who got married the girl did too therefore she should get an equal say/chance to speak up. This is the truth of our society ?

I've been spending a long time this morning reflecting and I'm trying to explain to myself that no matter what we do or say or even pray waheguru will do what he wishes. The more I wish, hope for this marriage to work out or even listen to my family saying 'gods made someone better for you' the more I'll struggle because only God knows his plans. 

I've grown up in a gursikh family and I've loved reading saakhis from a young age and I know Guru gobind Singh ji taught us to be thankful in every situation but I've read hundreds of saakhis where guru sahib listens to ardas, the bad karam are boiled down into dreams so the gursikh doesn't have to live through them. These saakhis don't let me lose hope but Im scared incase I lose faith in the saakhis in the end. 

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