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Recently I heard a katha about the power of sangat and how guru sahib says that if there's anyone above the guru it is his sangat. What the sangat says guru sahib cannot ignore.

There's many examples in saakhis;

1. Bhai chajju jis bricks

2. Baba budha ji's bachan 

3.bhai Sahlo ji 

And many more... 

Please it's a benti in your charan sangat ji, please give me the blessings of a happy married life with my husband. May waheguru ji save us from a divorce, may Dhan guru Ram das ji keep the honor of his laavan. 

Guru gobind Singh ji says it's paap to even think of anyone but ur partner, give us blessings so that we can follow guru sahibs teachings. Please may this separated couple be united. 

I know many people may say it's karam/bhana etc but guru sahib and guru jis sangat are above these and through your blessings maharaj ji may be merciful and clear my bad accounts. 

Please please please please please, I cannot express how much and how valuable/priceless your blessings are. Please gursangat ji

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May Guru ji bless you and your marriage and bring you both peace and comfort.

The sangats and Gurus blessings are on us all, every sikh prays for sarbat da bhalla.

Your right about power of sangats ardas or a sikhs ardas. 

Whilst we can do ardas, read more gurbani, do more seva and simran to change our karma we must realise we really don't know what Guru Sahib sees, ie how many sins and paap we have and how many are washed away. We sometimes focus too much on a particular outcome. Sikhi requires total surrender of the maan and ego to the Guru. Asking for anything but the Naam brings karam of some form.

 Ardas is still a benti to Guru Sahib, and we must do this as we are his children and can only ask from him.

Guruji knows your inner pain and more aware of our condition then we are. He controls each event and outcome, its all his play. 

ਬੁਰਾ ਭਲਾ ਕਿਛੁ ਆਪਸ ਤੇ ਜਾਨਿਆ ਏਈ ਸਗਲ ਵਿਕਾਰਾ ॥

He thinks that good and bad deeds come from himself; this is the source of all evil.

ਇਹੁ ਫੁਰਮਾਇਆ ਖਸਮ ਕਾ ਹੋਆ ਵਰਤੈ ਇਹੁ ਸੰਸਾਰਾ ॥੨॥

Whatever happens in this world is only by the Order of our Lord and Master. ||2||

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2 hours ago, Guruguruji said:

Recently I heard a katha about the power of sangat and how guru sahib says that if there's anyone above the guru it is his sangat. What the sangat says guru sahib cannot ignore.

There's many examples in saakhis;

1. Bhai chajju jis bricks

2. Baba budha ji's bachan 

3.bhai Sahlo ji 

And many more... 

Please it's a benti in your charan sangat ji, please give me the blessings of a happy married life with my husband. May waheguru ji save us from a divorce, may Dhan guru Ram das ji keep the honor of his laavan. 

Guru gobind Singh ji says it's paap to even think of anyone but ur partner, give us blessings so that we can follow guru sahibs teachings. Please may this separated couple be united. 

I know many people may say it's karam/bhana etc but guru sahib and guru jis sangat are above these and through your blessings maharaj ji may be merciful and clear my bad accounts. 

Please please please please please, I cannot express how much and how valuable/priceless your blessings are. Please gursangat ji

Well bhenji... I'm a wretch, but I pray you find your peace, joy, and acceptance.  Remember soul bride, you were joined in Anand Karaj with Vaheguru who has stayed by you always. 

 

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20 hours ago, Guest Accepting said:

May Guru ji bless you and your marriage and bring you both peace and comfort.

The sangats and Gurus blessings are on us all, every sikh prays for sarbat da bhalla.

Your right about power of sangats ardas or a sikhs ardas. 

Whilst we can do ardas, read more gurbani, do more seva and simran to change our karma we must realise we really don't know what Guru Sahib sees, ie how many sins and paap we have and how many are washed away. We sometimes focus too much on a particular outcome. Sikhi requires total surrender of the maan and ego to the Guru. Asking for anything but the Naam brings karam of some form.

 Ardas is still a benti to Guru Sahib, and we must do this as we are his children and can only ask from him.

Guruji knows your inner pain and more aware of our condition then we are. He controls each event and outcome, its all his play. 

ਬੁਰਾ ਭਲਾ ਕਿਛੁ ਆਪਸ ਤੇ ਜਾਨਿਆ ਏਈ ਸਗਲ ਵਿਕਾਰਾ ॥

He thinks that good and bad deeds come from himself; this is the source of all evil.

ਇਹੁ ਫੁਰਮਾਇਆ ਖਸਮ ਕਾ ਹੋਆ ਵਰਤੈ ਇਹੁ ਸੰਸਾਰਾ ॥੨॥

Whatever happens in this world is only by the Order of our Lord and Master. ||2||

Thank u so much for ur blessings, means a lot. 

I remember hearing in a katha that just as one little match stick can set a a whole barn on fire, just like that by saying waheguru even once (with full devotion and Faith) can set all your paap on fire. 

Thats true, maharaj jis the King of all hearts... sometimes I wonder if all of this faith is part of his hukam too because sometimes when I feel like breaking down he'll do something to lift me back up.

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20 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

From first page SehajPath after reading your post...

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Waow,  thank u so much. Just makes me wonder that if guru sahibs gursikhs are so kind then I wonder how kind maharaj ji must be himself. 

I've always seen my marriage as a triangle guru sahib at the top and me n my hubby at the bottom. Guru sahib has joined us together with his grace and tbh it's waheguru jis responsibility to care for us - he's our mother/father. 

Omg I originally got worried reading the first few lines but waheguru ji has given the solution to all my problems too?. I really need to dedicate more time and attention to paath- change my fears into faith.

Thank you once again

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On 5/28/2020 at 10:22 AM, Guruguruji said:

Recently I heard a katha about the power of sangat and how guru sahib says that if there's anyone above the guru it is his sangat. What the sangat says guru sahib cannot ignore.

There's many examples in saakhis;

1. Bhai chajju jis bricks

2. Baba budha ji's bachan 

3.bhai Sahlo ji 

And many more... 

Please it's a benti in your charan sangat ji, please give me the blessings of a happy married life with my husband. May waheguru ji save us from a divorce, may Dhan guru Ram das ji keep the honor of his laavan. 

Guru gobind Singh ji says it's paap to even think of anyone but ur partner, give us blessings so that we can follow guru sahibs teachings. Please may this separated couple be united. 

I know many people may say it's karam/bhana etc but guru sahib and guru jis sangat are above these and through your blessings maharaj ji may be merciful and clear my bad accounts. 

Please please please please please, I cannot express how much and how valuable/priceless your blessings are. Please gursangat ji

A marriage is built on love, trust, respect etc. both parties need to have these for each other. We dictate our lives, not the universe so you and your partner need to actively put these qualities into action. God is not going to make someone love you respect you and you can’t force them as we have been blessed with free will. Do your best and encourage your partner to do the same Actively. 
 

When you build a house, you don’t sit around praying that God will build it for you. You actively get up, take the bricks and build with your own hands. If you want your marriage, work on it and teach your husband about respect. Love, cherishing, to not be sexist and treat each other well. Nothing is guaranteed but at least you both would have tried. 

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1 hour ago, Sat1 said:

You should see a marriage counselor. A marriage is built on love, trust, repsect etc. both parties need to have these for each other. We dictate our lives, not the universe so you and your partner need to actively put these qualities into action. God is not going to make someone love you or repsect you and you can’t force them as we have been blessed with free will. Do your best and encourage your partner to do the same Actively. 

I've tried all my strength but I can't get in contact with him as he's blocked all ways. I have to honestly put my hands up and say I do not know what else I can physically do. I have no option but to surrender to guru sahib.

I do believe that ardas and benti Can make the impossible possible because at the end of the day we're all God's Children's. 

I know waheguru ji has given us free will but I believe that in this era we're surrounded by kalyug and sometimes when your bani/meditation lacks kalyug gets to your mind. I know I can't force my hubby to change his mind however I can pray for him and ask maharaj to protect him from kalyug infecting his mind so that he can realise his mistakes.

Laavan are very powerful and two people who are connected with laavan do have some sort of spiritual connection/authority over each other. Similarly a parent and child are closely connected too, my parents have been praying for my brother and I have seen a drastic change in him. I remember a while back when everything was going good, we did parshada for 5 Singh's, one Singh mentioned how his daughter has took amrit but her husband wouldn't change his path. She began doing ardas for him at Amrit vela to protect him from kalyugs influences and she was successful. 

Guru sahib says 'Jo mange Takhur apne te soee soee deve' they also say 'har har Tera naam hai dukh metanhaara'..... So my ardas is 'har ju rakh leo patt meri' .... I know for a fact waheguru jis words cannot be lies so the lack is in me, I hope with the sangats blessings and waheguru jis mercy my prayer will be fulfilled. 

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