I intend to wish ill on someone

[Guest Jasmeet Singh]

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this. 

[Singh375]

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[GurjantGnostic]

On 7/22/2020 at 11:19 AM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this. 

Gurbani says to reserve your complaints for Vaheguru. You can and should let Akal Purakh know how you feel expressively but not wish any particular ill on anyone. They already have it coming anyway. 

[Sat1]

On 7/22/2020 at 7:19 PM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this. 

Can you leave your job and work somewhere else? It sounds toxic and you’re not a slave to be working at less than minimum wage. I’m sure your value is a lot more than being abused like this, and I’m sure it’s against the law. 
 

The law of karma is complete and what goes around comes around, whether positive or negative. You don’t need to do ardas for karma to take its course. It occurs so we learn. Hence when we receive the slap of dukh, it’s for our own betterment, and it’s wise to learn the lessons If there are any and grow from it. 

[Guest Thinkwisely]

You should remove yourself from the situation ,change jobs and do wsteva you can to find better work.

Wishing ill on someone is not the way, only you suffer , as alot of this is played out in your mind. 

Perhaps spend some time working on yourself, understanding who you are and realising your own ego. Perhaps try reading Gurbani and doing simran alongside. Make the changes in your life so you can have a better environment

 

[Guest Jigsaw_Puzzled_Singh]

On 7/22/2020 at 7:19 PM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this. 

My advice to you is to choose a strategy and stick to it. Be consistent. There's nothing in wanting to pretend you're not a native English speaker whilst online and so starting your message in that way but you need to stick with the plan and not then go on to form sentences in a way that clearly show you to be anything but. Pretending is OK but keep an eye on the consistency fella.

[Guest Singh]

Farida bure da bhala kar, gussa man na handaye

[kcmidlands]

On 7/22/2020 at 7:19 PM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this. 

I know it sounds simple but just find another job and leave (i say this without knowing you specific situation so if i'm off the mark let me know).

Nothing good ever comes of wishing ill on someone else, i'll come back onto you, trust me, I've had it happen to me, it's taken me a long time to learn not to wish negativity onto others and doing a negative ardaas, listen, we do ardaas for the betterment of everyone, if your going to wish on someone while doing ardaas you've already let yourself down and learnt nothing from your Guru's.

[Singh375]

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[MokhamSingh]

On 7/22/2020 at 7:19 PM, Guest Jasmeet Singh said:

A lil background about me, I am came to Canada 4 years ago. I’m currently working for a crooked manager who exploits me to his gains (being made to work extensively for long hours, less pay than minimum wage, odd hours, inconvenient work) this has gone on for far too long and I despise him so much. 
 

because of which I wanna do an ardaas for him, specifically to request that he experiences the same pain that I’m going through and even worse. 
 

is it wise to do so? I’m getting anxiety attacks late at night and I’m in a lot of pain cause of this.