Is love marriage in same pind allowed? PLEASE HELP

[kaur]

On 10/2/2020 at 8:43 AM, Guest Singh said:

When he comes to canada and gets paka he will sponsor his Gf over anyways. 

Maybe.. you never know..  There are many cases like that and it is really sad..

[Guest jigsaw_puzzled-singh]

6 hours ago, kaur said:

 but again I don't have that much knowledge about it..

^ says "I don't have much knowledge of it" ever AFTER I gave her knowledge of it. 

OP.....username Kaur is the low standard of unpadhness that's giving you advice here so be careful what you take. As I told you before, everyone from the same village with the same surname has the same great or great-great grandfather which increases your chances significantly of producing serious defects in your children if you marry someone from the same pend.

If, as you say might be the case, your family side are strangers / newcomers to the pend then that still doesn't make it OK because by using the same argument you might as well go ahead and fall in love and have carnal relations with your mami or chachi because they too are strangers / newcomers without being related by blood. Oh wait....too late....we've already started going down that route haven't we.

[Guest N/a]

Hi I wish i could talk you one on one because I'm in the same boat. I wish we could talk about this if possible would mean so much to me.

[Guest Vilz]

Hi I'm in same boat would like to talk

[Guest]

There is NO such thing as True Love. Its only “Infatuation”. Its your mind playing tricks on you. Listen to the advise above and forget that guy. By forgetting him, he is not gonna be dead or be misreable.

I am going to tell you something right now. You should write it on a piece of paper. 
 

Even if all the people on this forum tell you otherwise, you are still going to chase that guy against your parents will. No matter what anyone says

Now, do you want to read something that you really like?

In Muslim religion marriage between siblings are allowed, such as cousins etc.

[Guest]

On 10/1/2020 at 11:35 AM, Guest Stranger101 said:

I don’t understand what I am doing wrong. 

 

Just do EXACTLY as your parents say. When you grow up you will understand why they were right.

if you dont listen to them now, you will likely spend your entire life regretting what u did.

[Guest]

19 hours ago, Guest Vilz said:

Hi I'm in same boat would like to talk

Two wrongs together dont make a right. You will probably mislead her and make her rebel against her parents.

[Guest Guest]

I am in the same boat. The person I like is from the same pind, however our lasts names, caste etc., are not the same. My parents are more worried about what our relatives/society will think rather than what I find happiness in. I known this person for more than 3 years and I know he's not in love with me for the PR. Please guide in terms of Sikhi.