A Strategic Review Is Required

[Singh375]

I have been reflecting a little bit. 

After deciding to leave the forum I came back to share a post last week. The purpose was sharing something inspirational with the takeaway being - make Mool Mantar part of your life.

The way people judge and insult others here is vile and disgusting. What you don't know is I am someone who sufferers depression on/off, have got close to ending my life a few times. These sly comments written hidden in a bedroom affect people. And I shouldn't have to share this before people might think 'oh..''. I see no excuse in the slightest for an online space where this kind of behaviour is tolerated @ADMIN ji. I'm talking about 'akalifauj'

I'm 25 years old and a genuine spiritual seeker. I'm not part of any jatha, group or organisation. Sikhi means everything to me.

Age 15 - I setup a YouTube channel called Mata Sahib Kaur Ji to share katha extracts with the world. To date - 10k+ subscribers, 1.5M+ views. Here is 1 video, have a look at comments and explore the channel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3HSz4lSkfw - Simple Katha of Chaupai Sahib

~ People started simran/paath, got faith in gurbani, even took amrit after watching my videos.

I run my channel with absolute zero tolerance policy. Any negative comments result in immediate user ban from entire channel. I won't allow anything to compromise my vision to create simply the most beautiful space for experiencing Sikhi. Negativity/doubts in naam simran destroy everything and I don't allow it. The sole aim is to experience anand of Guru's shabad.

Last few days I was working on building a blog to share more simran posts because I haven't even scratched the surface yet. Bad experience on this forum makes me realise just how special these things are to share. The project is now on hold for a re-think.

A very serious strategic review is required for this forum. Because I am the next generation and one who can really contribute - yet I'm feeling I don't even want to be on this site the culture is so aggressive and bullying. Handing over the forum blindly assumes the next generation want to use it. Some members would make the greatest contribution to promoting Sikhi by being blocked. 

The value I can offer to promoting Sikhi is enormous, and filled with genuine passion for what I do. I've already created a 7 figure engagement impact on YouTube which is awesome for what started as a 15yr old school boy in his spare time project.

My goal is big impact, my YouTube is already having more impact than this whole forum in promoting gurbani and naam simran. So I need to have a serious review also about where to dedicate my time. I've even got a personal Sikhi strategic plan for projects I want to do in my lifetime - that's how important serving the Sangat / Khalsa Panth is to me.

(One project is cyber security related. 'What happens if you open your gurbani app tomorrow and it says error?' 1 enemy with a laptop can modify, damage or destroy apps we rely on. Many of us no longer keep gutka/pothis or even have gurbani kanth.  And what if WW3 and Internet & Youtube goes down?  I want to create huge digital backup archives to keep today's content available for future generations)

Aap Japo Avarai Naam Japavo

Sangat Ji, you want a simran tip? Do Sikhi parchar - when someone connects because of you, it lifts you higher too. It can just be at home to encourage your family, or sharing the odd kirtan link on your Facebook, whatsapp etc. Or dream bigger.. 

Next Generation are already making huge things happen and have been for years!

[brotha]

1 hour ago, Singh375 said:

I have been reflecting a little bit. 

After deciding to leave the forum I came back to share a post last week. The purpose was sharing something inspirational with the takeaway being - make Mool Mantar part of your life.

The way people judge and insult others here is vile and disgusting. What you don't know is I am someone who sufferers depression on/off, have got close to ending my life a few times. These sly comments written hidden in a bedroom affect people. And I shouldn't have to share this before people might think 'oh..''. I see no excuse in the slightest for an online space where this kind of behaviour is tolerated @ADMIN ji. I'm talking about 'akalifauj'

I'm 25 years old and a genuine spiritual seeker. I'm not part of any jatha, group or organisation. Sikhi means everything to me.

Age 15 - I setup a YouTube channel called Mata Sahib Kaur Ji to share katha extracts with the world. To date - 10k+ subscribers, 1.5M+ views. Here is 1 video, have a look at comments and explore the channel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3HSz4lSkfw - Simple Katha of Chaupai Sahib

~ People started simran/paath, got faith in gurbani, even took amrit after watching my videos.

I run my channel with absolute zero tolerance policy. Any negative comments result in immediate user ban from entire channel. I won't allow anything to compromise my vision to create simply the most beautiful space for experiencing Sikhi. Negativity/doubts in naam simran destroy everything and I don't allow it. The sole aim is to experience anand of Guru's shabad.

Last few days I was working on building a blog to share more simran posts because I haven't even scratched the surface yet. Bad experience on this forum makes me realise just how special these things are to share. The project is now on hold for a re-think.

A very serious strategic review is required for this forum. Because I am the next generation and one who can really contribute - yet I'm feeling I don't even want to be on this site the culture is so aggressive and bullying. Handing over the forum blindly assumes the next generation want to use it. Some members would make the greatest contribution to promoting Sikhi by being blocked. 

The value I can offer to promoting Sikhi is enormous, and filled with genuine passion for what I do. I've already created a 7 figure engagement impact on YouTube which is awesome for what started as a 15yr old school boy in his spare time project.

My goal is big impact, my YouTube is already having more impact than this whole forum in promoting gurbani and naam simran. So I need to have a serious review also about where to dedicate my time. I've even got a personal Sikhi strategic plan for projects I want to do in my lifetime - that's how important serving the Sangat / Khalsa Panth is to me.

(One project is cyber security related. 'What happens if you open your gurbani app tomorrow and it says error?' 1 enemy with a laptop can modify, damage or destroy apps we rely on. Many of us no longer keep gutka/pothis or even have gurbani kanth.  And what if WW3 and Internet & Youtube goes down?  I want to create huge digital backup archives to keep today's content available for future generations)

Aap Japo Avarai Naam Japavo

Sangat Ji, you want a simran tip? Do Sikhi parchar - when someone connects because of you, it lifts you higher too. It can just be at home to encourage your family, or sharing the odd kirtan link on your Facebook, whatsapp etc. Or dream bigger.. 

Next Generation are already making huge things happen and have been for years!

 

100 % correct.

I support you, we need more people to come forward like you and remove the trash from here, we come here to share our views, our strengths,  our weaknesses, but not to see someone constantly bullying and challenging everybody.

Why so?

Why being so lenient with the wicked and hankari fellow?

He is on quality control, yet he keeps on vomiting and poisoning this otherwise nice forum, where as sikhs we come to share all that we have to do so, with our pains, sufferings, our inspirations, our dreams.... in reality, just   sharing and being respectful towards all.

See the history of this "particular guy" on ths forum, he is the most controversiest, always quarreling, bullying, being disrespectful, and  also for pretending to be knowledgeable in sikhee, but the fact is that his ahankar and ignorance does not allow him to mature neither mentally nor spiritually, so he fails time after time.

Enough of his nonsense.

[KhoonKaBadlaKhoon2]

I agree with Akali Fauj often, but some of those from Nihang circles (I'm assuming his association here) have a big superiority problem. Despite Nihangs as a whole having been absent for decades now, lol. 

[Akalifauj]

Well, I guess the admin will read his post and ban me because it's the era of safe space.  Asking questions aren't allowed because some feel they are being targeted or it triggers them.  I wish all of you the best even those who call me colorful names.  Question and analyze everything.   Don't settle or be afraid to ask the most glorified Saint anything.  The fake ones will try to drive fear into you and the real ones will welcome the challenge and dive into Gurbani to produce the answer.

8 hours ago, KhoonKaBadlaKhoon2 said:

I agree with Akali Fauj often, but some of those from Nihang circles (I'm assuming his association here) have a big superiority problem. Despite Nihangs as a whole having been absent for decades now, lol. 

Thanks for the support mate.  By the way, I am not a nihang.  I don't claim to have all the knowledge of Gurbani but the fundamentals of Sikhi have been stamped into my brain over vigorous hours of battling with the mind.  Some stamp the traditional way a jatha lives in their mind.  I choose to take a very hard stance on the fundamentals of Sikhi.  No sugar coating  because the mind becomes lazy.   I like challenging the mind.  Like the latest one is, what are the glories of Akal Purakh because Gurbani teaches us to praise the glories of Akal Purakh.   To the simple mind this seems like a stupid question because they are hooked on giving a frivolous answer limited in creation.  I need to travel deeper into the nirankar to understand the true glories of Akal Purakh.   The ones beyond creation and not limited to time.  These ones will wake the mind to the true state that only a few have gone.  I won't settle for frivolous answers.  So I may come off strong.  But i have nothing but good intentions.

[Singh375]

16 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

Well, I guess the admin will read this post and ban me 

Yeah I really hope they do, because right now you’re the weakest link.

This forum could be a discussion forum for throwing insults and gossiping.

Or we can leverage having a platform to connect with fellow Sikhs and use it to really motivate and inspire each other to ‘be better Sikhs’ - this is what our dear brother Bhai Jagraj Singh Ji BOS would probably say.

Elders should be doing this - writing inspirational posts for younger generation, especially simran related. But there’s absolutely nothing from them. A few people do try to write encouraging posts, and I think like me, they are young.

Lot’s of thinking needs to be done...

[brotha]

21 hours ago, Akalifauj said:

1)Well, I guess the admin will read his post and ban me

2)But i have nothing but good intentions.

1) Please do no lie so much, if ever anyone bans you, it would not be for being biased, but because of your so much  nonsense /bakwaas in so many years:  your bullying, your harrasing, your disrepectful attitude towards members, your fake knowledge bahamwadee in sikhee, and more of your negative behavior....

2) Again you are lying. If you had good intentions, you would have been a better person after all, not a rascal. If you had good intentions, you would have helped those members with whom you interact, not bullying and harrasing them, with your so much hankar.

Why is that, you are right and others always wrong?  

which foolish person has implemented this rubbish in your mind? 

who has given any such diploma or title that you are right above others, huh?

Now please do not say any of your frivolous fancy fake answers.

 

You are the one who is in fact  giving names and belittleling others, let me remind you some of your patterns as a true narcissist that you are:

1. you crave admiration and validation.

2. you are always trying to prove that you are superior to others — your desire to win at all costs is all-encompassing.

3. you are extremely self-centered.

4. you are very short-minded — who can only see things from your own perspective.

5. you are hypersensitive to feeling slighted or mistreated in any way — you feel insulted and criticized when no insult or criticism was intended and you are always on the defensive.

6. you always believe that you are the innocent victim and that others are hostile perpetrators.

7. you  are always willing to devalue and humiliate other people.

8. you have hierarchical thinking, meaning that every person or object  is placed on a scale, so you  have trouble believing anyone is your equal.

9. you hate seeing someone happy, content, normal, peaceful, loving, kind, grateful or fulfilled,  because you simply posses none of these traits and never will.

10. What a miserable and manipulative fellow you are. 

 

[Jai Tegang!]

Sometimes our biggest adversaries/obstacles are the ones that push us to expand out of our comfort zone into new knowledge. Take the questions in stride my friend SIngh375. Continue doing your thing, but also be ready to answer questions to the best of your ability. It's ok if you can't give sufficient replies. It just shows there's more you can work on. It will help build your self confidence aswell. The most challenged topics usually end up bringing out the best from us. Not too long ago there was this muslim neighbor poster. His irritating behavior helped many like myself delve into problems with islamic narratives and only backfired on him. 

Anyway, just my 2cents. Take care and continue sharing your spiritual posts on here.

 

 

 

[KhoonKaBadlaKhoon2]

Let the brother stick around and clear his name. Regardless of personal stances, you can tell he is very much pro-Sikhi. Putting us in the same boat. 

[Akalifauj]

How come this thread is still up?@ADMIN @MOD @S1ngh  if this thread was about poster @Singh375 one of the mods would have pulled it down by now.  If you guys want to put on a perception of being fair than actually behave like it.

I will give it a day or two.  Than I will ask the same unanswered questions from poster @Singh375.  

[Singh375]

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