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10 hours ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

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Why are you even answering this ridiculous question? Have some respect for the woman who’s stuck with you when you aren’t giving her the full deal as a husband. You should see her as beautiful for what she’s putting up with. 
That question is irrelevant and shouldn’t have even been asked.

Spoiling her? You need to change your understanding of what a wife is. My husband would never talk about me like that, we are partners and a team and my happiness is his happiness vice versa. Grow up for the sake of teaching your child good values and respect for women.

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12 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

It's silly, because it's that old Indian pale skin obsession rearing its head. Most of these dark skinned girls are otherwise aesthetically decent, so there's no need to look like they've buried their head in a tray of cocaine.

Yeah, I find the foundation of your natural skin colour much more better looking than the white paint they chopar the face with. It looks kind of creepy. I'm just hoping that they don't start coping those Japanese white makeup faces. ?

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I have seriously considered installing spyware on her phone that gives me complete recordings of her calls, esp her pesky sisters who keep stirring her , and also all messages she might do . The software is a bit expensive but one can't detect if its installed on their phone. 

So that I know what she is doing. This is just to prevent her from someone taking her inadvertent misuse. 

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17 minutes ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

I have seriously considered installing spyware on her phone that gives me complete recordings of her calls, esp her pesky sisters who keep stirring her , and also all messages she might do . The software is a bit expensive but one can't detect if its installed on their phone. 

So that I know what she is doing. This is just to prevent her from someone taking her inadvertent misuse. 

I understand the desire for that bro, but don't do that Ji. 

Build your relationship on Gurbani, on your practice of Sikhi as householders, with communication and trust and be in your alpha energy bro. 

Be affectionate with her bro. Gay or not she needs your reassurance and your touch. For you to be loving Ji. No matter what kind of love that is. 

Encourage her to either invest herself in raising your young one properly or find the most appropriate work available. Cosmotology is a tacky profession for a Sikh in my wretched opinion. 

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10 hours ago, AjeetSingh2019 said:

I have seriously considered installing spyware on her phone that gives me complete recordings of her calls, esp her pesky sisters who keep stirring her , and also all messages she might do . The software is a bit expensive but one can't detect if its installed on their phone. 

So that I know what she is doing. This is just to prevent her from someone taking her inadvertent misuse. 

No, that's messed up.

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12 hours ago, Ranjeet01 said:

Don't do the spyware. 

All this means is that you don't trust your wife.

Marriage needs trust. If there is no trust, what do you have left in your relationship? 

Women talk with their pekheh when it comes to the foibles of their in-laws.

This is their nature.

If you had a sister and she was married, she would do exactly the same with your mum.

Also your sister and mum would talk about the faults of your wife. 

That is the nature of women.

and this guy talks to sikh jagat about his wife ... takes all sorts

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