Masturbation?

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That person has started downvoting all my posts. Everybody knows who he is. 

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Show us your face. 

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Problem is as a teenager you will have wet dreams, and that is very uncomfortable.

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On 1/20/2021 at 7:24 AM, Ocdperson said:

So as a teenager, hormones are in full effect. And I’m not going to act like there aren’t beautiful girls around the world I feel attracted to. I am confused on masturbation, is it fine to do in Sikhism? I know that the main problem everyone has with masturbation is Lust. And from seeing different opinions from people, I am confused. Lust is the bad part because it makes you forget Naam. But doesn’t watching YouTube or a movie make you technically forget Naam too? The first thing I do in the morning is to pray to God and talk with God. Everyday I feel like I remember God and Naam. So I am confused on what is bad about masturbation done moderately. If forgetting Naam is a reason, don’t I do the same thing when watching tv or playing a sport or when I’m in school? Say this, If I daily  pray and talk with God and remember God, is it bad for me to masturbate moderately to attractive girls in Sikhism? Because I feel like I remember God everyday. People say The bad part of Lust is forgetting Naam but I am confused, aren’t I technically forgetting Naam while doing things that take my full attention for example like school, sports, movies. Can I balance my sexual life and my religious within Sikhism? I mean no disrespect, just curious. 

I mean grandparents generation they used to just marry you off as a teenager and then you didn't need to do all this stuff.

Guru ji said go into grihast jeevan, live the life of a householder.

Please - it is not my fault we have taken a western lifestyle and are marrying late, leaving us vulnerable to 5 vikaar!

 

Please excuse me....

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1 hour ago, ipledgeblue said:

I mean grandparents generation they used to just marry you off as a teenager and then you didn't need to do all this stuff.

Guru ji said go into grihast jeevan, live the life of a householder.

Please - it is not my fault we have taken a western lifestyle and are marrying late, leaving us vulnerable to 5 vikaar!

 

Please excuse me....

Fully agree. All this Western ideas and philosophies have made us go deeper into kal yug. Guys the West is KAL JUG. Marrying after trying out various sex partners.

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2 hours ago, singhsince1981 said:

Fully agree. All this Western ideas and philosophies have made us go deeper into kal yug. Guys the West is KAL JUG. Marrying after trying out various sex partners.

really stupid whoever voted you down for this. probably thinks sikhs should go make boyfriend girlfriend kanjar gham.

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30 minutes ago, ipledgeblue said:

really stupid whoever voted you down for this. probably thinks sikhs should go make boyfriend girlfriend kanjar gham.

I dont know who did it, but I dont care myself. Looking at the way things are going and the way western culture and way of thinking has taken over the world, I am sure the Art of Self-Realization or Brahmgyan whatever you call will be totally lost. 

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2 hours ago, singhsince1981 said:

I dont know who did it, but I dont care myself. Looking at the way things are going and the way western culture and way of thinking has taken over the world, I am sure the Art of Self-Realization or Brahmgyan whatever you call will be totally lost. 

Sikhi will survive. No speaking for the rest. 

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To the OP (Original Poster),

I would like to say that overcoming kaam is possible, even if difficult. To raise your hopes there are people I know who have overcome this evil.

The weapons that you need are as follows:

1) Consistent True ardaas, throughout the day and all times.

2) Development of intense prema bhagti. For example if ur addicted to video games, you will only think games. You must do the same with preme bhagti.

3) Think of your body as a house, where you want Guru Ji to enter and stay. Would you want Guru ji to enter your body if there was all this kaam inside.

4) Avoid all situations, scenarios where kaam can arise. For example such movies, TVs, going out in summer where u encounter bad scenario.

5) Make your mind busy in Sikhi only all the time.

Hope this helps.