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58 minutes ago, scali said:

Also save your Grasth Sermon for someone who cares. Living Life is a bigger experience. 

well since Guru Nanak recommended grihast jeevan, and Guru Sahibs and gursikhs practised this, then I guess a lot of sikhs do care! 

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26 minutes ago, ipledgeblue said:

well since Guru Nanak recommended grihast jeevan, and Guru Sahibs and gursikhs practised this, then I guess a lot of sikhs do care! 

22ji, no point in explaining to these people here. These sikhs are totally brainwashed by kal jug and hold dear to such values only. 

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7 hours ago, scali said:

Sikhism is neither pro or anti marriage. Lavans are a discourse of soul bride and groom GOD.

 

you'll find that  Guru ji says that it is the highest form of bhagati , where we are not aa burden but a positive influence on the world around us

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Highest form of Bhakti per Sikhism is Simran not getting married and playing mind games with your partner. Charity begins at home if home life is hell how can one be a lighthouse for the rest. Let’s be real and stop sugarcoating the obvious.

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17 hours ago, scali said:

We are three brothers married to women from Sikh families with similar experiences, mostly negative with these women. Their side of families can come over stay for weeks while when our sides show up attitudes start flying. So I have stopped giving Spiritual meaning to Grasth Jivan. Three similar Sikh women experiences is enough data.

Its not an uncommon scenario. Is your wife and your brothers wives from India? Also do you all live together?

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9 hours ago, scali said:

Highest form of Bhakti per Sikhism is Simran not getting married and playing mind games with your partner. Charity begins at home if home life is hell how can one be a lighthouse for the rest. Let’s be real and stop sugarcoating the obvious.

these girls playing mind games, it's not like they are taking grihast jeevan seriously either.

Their vikaars are getting in the way, the 5 vikaar/ panj chor affect a lot of people, married, not-married, everyone lives under this maya

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