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1 hour ago, dallysingh101 said:

Where do we stop with this line of thinking? Is all the Sikh girls I've bumped into over the years, who are dating/marrying out - whether sullay, kalay, goray - any less of an issue? 

there is slight difference.

bhappaa girls pretend to be true sikh but girls in west marrying goraas, kaaley, sulley etc don't pretend to be true sikh.

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5 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

So, ironically, the women who eschew Sikh males for men of other groups are actually more observant of their religion's spiritual philosophy than those who aren't, lol.

You ever think that outside of the comfort bubble of 'numbers' that many apnay in Panjab rely on (especially along certain caste lines....), when in less 'secure' environments that whole bombast falls apart, and apneean see through it. Instead of faking it - why don't apnay (along Sikh lines not some jaat-paat bollox) actually practice and promote being the masculine figures in challenging situations outside of the safe space of being in the majority?  

Otherwise, we are just big fish in a small chappar. 

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5 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

You ever think that outside of the comfort bubble of 'numbers' that many apnay in Panjab rely on (especially along certain caste lines....), when in less 'secure' environments that whole bombast falls apart, and apneean see through it. Instead of faking it - why don't apnay (along Sikh lines not some jaat-paat bollox) actually practice and promote being the masculine figures in challenging situations outside of the safe space of being in the majority?  

Otherwise, we are just big fish in a small chappar. 

Probably true on a vague unspoken level, certainly nothing they could articulate to justify their decisions. Women's instincts are amazingly astute in these matters; it verges on supernatural but it's obviously something evolutionary. Of course, this applies only to women who possess the ability to choose. An oppressed girl in a desert tribal community won't be doing any of this. 

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