something seriously wrong with Indian's perception of women

[jkvlondon]

1 hour ago, shastarSingh said:

A bihari woman cleans our house.

She told my dad that her husband beats her regularly and asked for help.

Yesterday my dad met her husband.

He told my dad that these women r lusty, clever and deceitful creatures and that no one can understand the mind of a woman.

he's basically quoting manusmirti language about women

[GurjantGnostic]

2 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

bad woman is as bad as a bad man.

good woman is as good (if not more) as a good man.

Amen to that bro. I had somebody in mind when I posted above. Lol. 

To my Gursikh Sisters I commend you. 

And all Love included, and jokes aside, Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaja did write Sri Charitropakhyan for a reason. 

I should really read that...having had first hand experience and sort of...imagining what's in there... I've been working up the resolve.

I apologize if I offended anyone. I was feeling salty. 

[GurjantGnostic]

1 hour ago, MisterrSingh said:

There's bad women like there are bad men. Ideally, these people of both sexes should be shunned and shamed into reforming themselves. Instead, we tend to look past these deficiencies and unknowingly and perversely encourage this rotten behaviour by excusing it as just one of those things that can't be avoided. 

Amen to that bro. 

[Premi5]

Rightly or wrongly, the 'reputation' of  a woman carries great weight for her immediate and extended families in conservative cultures, e.g. Catholic countries, Indian subcontinent and middle East

[ChardikalaUK]

25 minutes ago, Premi5 said:

Rightly or wrongly, the 'reputation' of  a woman carries great weight for her immediate and extended families in conservative cultures, e.g. Catholic countries, Indian subcontinent and middle East

I think the Catholic countries have moved on from this. Southern Europeans and South Americans don't have this honour culture when it comes to women anymore. The Indian subcontinent and the Middle East are crap places that everyone wants to leave. People from those countries who want to keep backwards thinking like sexism and casteism alive in their new countries should be deported.

[jkvlondon]

3 hours ago, GurjantGnostic said:

Absolutely right. Minus the beating anyone thing. 

and men aren't all those things plus violent and entitled

[shastarSingh]

1 hour ago, GurjantGnostic said:

And all Love included, and jokes aside, Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaja did write Sri Charitropakhyan for a reason. 

Guru Sahib wrote charitropakhyan to save us from bad women and bad men.

Even to this day, all secret agencies of the world recruit beautiful women for their missions.

[jkvlondon]

3 minutes ago, ChardikalaUK said:

I think the Catholic countries have moved on from this. Southern Europeans and South Americans don't have this honour culture when it comes to women anymore. The Indian subcontinent and the Middle East are crap places that everyone wants to leave. People from those countries who want to keep backwards thinking like sexism and casteism alive in their new countries should be deported.

well there is still massive judgement on females in South America and other catholic countries

[GurjantGnostic]

2 minutes ago, jkvlondon said:

and men aren't all those things plus violent and entitled

Yeah. It's just when you're a good dude, who only associates with good dudes, then all you see is yourself and other good dudes get hosed. 

I blame myself now for just being up to the wrong thing. Even if it's what I was told was right and did it with love and integrity. 

Anand Karaj or nothing kids. As much as the entire world and media are trying to tell you otherwise.. it's a lie. Anand Karaj or nothing. 

[GurjantGnostic]

10 minutes ago, shastarSingh said:

Guru Sahib wrote charitropakhyan to save us from bad women and bad men.

Even to this day, all secret agencies of the world recruit beautiful women for their missions.

Good to know. More likely to read it soon now. From what I had heard it was mainly lessons about women's wiles and kaam.