Oh okay. Good luck. Then do you just have your kesh out?
I'm not amritdhari yet but I've been wearing a dastaar since around when I was 5.
My kesh are long (like up to my knees) so I only properly learnt to do one like last year, my mum used ot do it. I wrap my kesh around my hand once to create like a circle thingy and then maybe like twice or three times underneath it and then pull the remaining kesh through the circle thingy and then the two or three times I've wrapped it underneath kind of goes inside the circle thingy, and then pull the remaining kesh and secure it and then wrap that remaining kesh around it once. That probably didn't make sense but I hope that helped.