parents take her away after Muslim girl marries sikh youth!

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7 hours ago, Suchi said:

Why didn't they ,mention that if Santosh agreed to convert to Islam, all would be well and dandy, but if Ayesha converted, they would be at risk of death?? 

sikh man is not supposed to have any relationship wit women before marriage and muslim woman we r told to especially stay away from. these types make there religon a second seat n prolly r not quality memebers of either religion 

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12 hours ago, Suchi said:

Whether they're supposed to or not is a different matter. The fact is that there many cases of Sikhs having relations before marriage with any other religion. What do you propose to do with these types of relationships? Can you stop them?

take better care of your sons and daughters and those who do this should be named and shamed

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17 minutes ago, Suchi said:

Depends on what you mean by that. A Jat Sikh woman I know was thrown out of her home at 16 when it was found she had a boyfriend. She spent years living on her own and tried to commit suicide 3 times.  She ended up in a relationship with a married Sikh man for years and having a child from him.  She's now a Christian due to lack of tolerance from her own community.

If she'd been in Punjab her life would have been ruined.  Luckily she survived. 

You can't expect the community to thrive if this sort of treatment is regularly meted out for transgressions of rules that are alien to the local culture.  

There has to be compromise if people want to live outside Punjab.  Hence the reason for communities still suffering after decades of being in Western countries. 

kicking out shouldnt be the first thhing she should be disciplined a few apneh r starting to become like the goreh there r very easy solutions to these problems