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it could be that only the narcissists would have survived the waves of invasions and sikhs are an abbrerent groups as they are not of the same  cloth  coping mechanism wise a bit like Viktor frankl pointed out that most of the survivors of the camps were capos or really nasty psycopaths/sociopaths

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On 5/17/2021 at 3:43 PM, jkvlondon said:

All children have narcissism as a trait from the get go it allows them to survive and fight for resources but as they mature healthily they will drop it majorly and develop their emapthic natures as their emotional intelligence increases the narcissist is stunted , developmentally deformed on the emotional and spiritual front they create a false personality to hide that and woe betide anyone who breaks that image by hinting at the truth. Narcissistic kryptonite is having self-love/ self-esteem, integrity, a strong identity of self and contentment , they look for chinks of insecurity to exploit then they move in. They will lovebomb you until you think they are in love with you and then they are happy as they have full access to your resources whether emotional (friends and shielding them from having to engage with the lower forms of human (all other humans than themselves) ) material (home, money, even locations (my SIL would collect people as 'friends' to have access to their homes to holiday at for free) or intellectual my MIL got accepted to Cambridge for her Phd but had to give that up because of my FIL being jealous he couldn't achieve the same . Then when they have what they want they will drop you like a piece of trash . I've seen so many empathetic people getting caught out by such scumbags .

This one seems a good example of a narcissist. And I agree, these types who wouldn't hesitate to tell you they are Sikh if asked, should drop Singh or Kaur from their surname and choose something else

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On 5/17/2021 at 4:57 AM, NaamTiharoJoJape said:

are all the things in the second paragraph toxic 

pretty sure those things are universal in the world of punjabism 

I do see your valid point esp other kids are better than your own and drilling it in them. But these things are damaging and can take place it any community. 

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