i messed up big time

[MisterrSingh]

On 8/16/2021 at 12:35 PM, Suchi said:

And why didn't your Dad protect your Mum and give you a big thappar?

Mine or his?

[1Anonymous1]

Ask for forgiveness time and time again. Never forget what you did the next time you get angry. 

[PuzzledToo]

The thing with our punjabi mothers(Waheguru bless them), is that they will keep on forgiving no matter what the child does and end up being an enabler for this kind of bad behaviour.

Forgiveness or no forgiveness, Singh I assume you're not a minor so get into some type of counselling or anger management sessions asap. Don't wait for this to happen another time, trust me it will if you don't take proactive action right now.

[MisterrSingh]

I still want to know why, when he had a clear choice between his mum and dad to punch, he goes for his mum!

[jjs8]

Attend Sangat. Naam, simrin and sewa will take you a long way.

Not wisest person (trims beard, drinks alcohol) but steadily we can conquer our minds. We have to tame the 5 robbers from our mind and become gurmukh. 

 

[Sarbloh1469]

you truly are a brave king by giving your mom a couple of whacks. seriously though, that's just ridiculous and shameful... I agree with the post above to attend the Gurudwara and to redirect your internalized anger elsewhere instead of lashing it out physically onto someone else.

Start a journal, hit the gym and just try self-improvement which will automatically be noticed by your loved ones. Apart from that, the bare minimum you should truly apologize to your parents and make sure you never do such a thing again.

[dallysingh101]

On 8/16/2021 at 12:04 PM, PuzzledToo said:

Most probably.  Then his sons and daughters will give him A1 first class seva when they grow up.

Reminds me of a sign behind a truck I saw when I was in Ludhiana:

Bure nazar wala, tere bache jeen, aur wadde hoke tere khoon peen.

What if it gets deeper than that? That some muradh in her family (rightfully) caves his head in? (or bhundh paarhs him, as our rural, jut Panjabi culture expresses?)

[dallysingh101]

8 minutes ago, Sarbloh1469 said:

you truly are a brave king by giving your mom a couple of whacks. seriously though, that's just ridiculous and shameful... I agree with the post above to attend the Gurudwara and to redirect your internalized anger elsewhere instead of lashing it out physically onto someone else.

Start a journal, hit the gym and just try self-improvement which will automatically be noticed by your loved ones. Apart from that, the bare minimum you should truly apologize to your parents and make sure you never do such a thing again.

Why don't you say what needs to be said! 

Direct that anger to some pedo, or someone selling hard drugs to under 18s, or some rapist or psychopath. Make yourself useful, instead of being a 'clunh' (what my departed pal used to call a mix between a clown and a lunh! lol)

[PuzzledToo]

On 8/21/2021 at 6:40 AM, dallysingh101 said:

What if it gets deeper than that? That some muradh in her family (rightfully) caves his head in? (or bhundh paarhs him, as our rural, jut Panjabi culture expresses?)

That is the traditional remedy with a high success rate. No need to waste money on counselling.

[Arsh1469]

If i ever punched my mom I would be found dead.