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As the title suggests, I believe this has to be done sooner or later. Don't wish to end up like Californiasardar all lonely, frustrated at women and being a partypooper on every thread(just kidding).

Lets discuss,suggest,encourage,discourage me on this thought of mine.

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On 9/9/2021 at 9:16 AM, Guest Pyara said:

As the title suggests, I believe this has to be done sooner or later. Don't wish to end up like Californiasardar all lonely, frustrated at women and being a partypooper on every thread(just kidding).

Lets discuss,suggest,encourage,discourage me on this thought of mine.

You should absolutely. Get yourself in order and ask people you trust to hook it up. Be able to arriculate what's most important to you. 

Some things for consideration.

Commitment to Purtan Gursikhi. 

Commitment to Purtan Gursikhi. 

Keeping of Naam, Nitnem, Panj Kakkar, Saroop and Rehit. 

Which Rehit? Meat or no? Sukha or no?

Honesty.

Temperment.

Work ethic.

Profession or house?

Honesty

Kids educated where and how?

Materialism expectations?

Honesty

Real is more important than perfect. What is most important to you? What can you accept and care less about?

Integrity over looks every time bro. If you get both fine but that first one is everything. 

 

 

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On 9/18/2021 at 5:54 PM, GurjantGnostic said:

You should absolutely. Get yourself in order and ask people you trust to hook it up. Be able to arriculate what's most important to you. 

Some things for consideration.

Commitment to Purtan Gursikhi. 

Commitment to Purtan Gursikhi. 

Keeping of Naam, Nitnem, Panj Kakkar, Saroop and Rehit. 

Which Rehit? Meat or no? Sukha or no?

Honesty.

Temperment.

Work ethic.

Profession or house?

Honesty

Kids educated where and how?

Materialism expectations?

Honesty

Real is more important than perfect. What is most important to you? What can you accept and care less about?

Integrity over looks every time bro. If you get both fine but that first one is everything. 

 

 

Thank you bhaiji. Admin take so long to approve my post.Its like admin dont want me get married.

Most important is she must be virgin bhaiji and not party sharty type.

I cant accept if another man touch her before.If she lie me and suhaag raat I find out I commit suicide bhaiji.

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On 9/9/2021 at 5:16 PM, Guest Pyara said:

As the title suggests, I believe this has to be done sooner or later. Don't wish to end up like Californiasardar all lonely, frustrated at women and being a partypooper on every thread(just kidding).

Lets discuss,suggest,encourage,discourage me on this thought of mine.

Do your due diligence. What does your gut instinct tell you about the person you're looking at for a marriage partner; not what everyone around you is chattering about in the hope to "sell" you her to you as a prospective wife. Then do some further digging, lmao.

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51 minutes ago, dallysingh101 said:

If he's just going to kill himself on finding that out, that's unfortunate but fair enough. But don't start killing other people as well, including the b1tch. 

Do you think our guys in the West are as prone to the dramatics as resorting to suicide? I personally think they've thrown in the towel; a quiet acceptance of defeat which is mostly attributable to the broader culture that has compounded the idea that it's toxic for a man to question a lady about her antics. 

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