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41 minutes ago, Kau89r8 said:

No matter how much you are hurt and in pain, i know nothing will bring your wife back..she loved you and would want the best for you. Would she be okay to see you in this state today. She will always be a part of you and that can never change. 

I know easier said then done, try to see we will all leave one day. My days could be numbered. Make most of each day, imagine its you last day, can you look back and say you'd have no regrets? How would your wife want you to live. She would want to see you happy and live your life to the fullest. 

Grief never ends. Where there is deep grief, there is great love.

Waheguru ?

 

Well quantum physics says different 

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14 hours ago, Suchi said:

If you're able, I suggest you do some charity work, maybe helping the homeless for example. Seeing people worse off than yourself may help you stop thinking about your own problems.  

 

Already pay to oxfam, in here name,  I just need to know she, is ok , I hope u make sense 

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3 hours ago, Suchi said:

I understand what you are saying. You can ask her in your mind or out loud and wait for a sign. 

After my mother died I kept wondering about her though I had many dreams. But during the last one I asked her where she was and she said she was 'in India with her mother'. This made perfect sense to me. 

 

Thank you,  means a lot

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