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6 hours ago, Suchi said:

Don't throw away the potential of a loving caring relationship for something you only recently decided was 'a big aspect' of your life.  Unless you are prepared to face the real fact of being single your whole life. 

Love conquers all. Isn't that what all religions are about anyway, except for those that exclude unbelievers?

The fact you have your mother's support should be your first consideration. 

Why not invite him over and then see where it goes without predetermining an outcome. And involve your mum in the process? 

 

 

She should find a Sikh bro. If not, at least somebody with a deep respect for her and it. That's a lapse judgemental christian I guarantee it. And he won't have anyone other than Jesus in his kids life even though he has zero sharda or rehit in his faith. 

He'd lay pipe with Bhenji though so there's that. 

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6 hours ago, Suchi said:

Don't throw away the potential of a loving caring relationship for something you only recently decided was 'a big aspect' of your life.  Unless you are prepared to face the real fact of being single your whole life. 

Love conquers all. Isn't that what all religions are about anyway, except for those that exclude unbelievers?

The fact you have your mother's support should be your first consideration. 

Why not invite him over and then see where it goes without predetermining an outcome. And involve your mum in the process? 

Our religion teaches “Jagat Meh Jhooti Dekhhi Preet”, Not “love conquers all”. 
 

Religion is not a “big aspect of life”, but a core tenant to someone’s identity. 

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19 minutes ago, Jacfsing2 said:

Our religion teaches “Jagat Meh Jhooti Dekhhi Preet”, Not “love conquers all”. 
 

Religion is not a “big aspect of life”, but a core tenant to someone’s identity. 

I'm using her own words if you care to read her posts. It's clear she hasn't any Sikh male friends, doesn't like or relate to them.

So with this Dutch guy showing interest she could try and learn more about where his views on various topics lie. Before giving up altogether. Especially as they are clearly friends and attracted to each other. 

 

 

 

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55 minutes ago, Suchi said:

I'm using her own words if you care to read her posts. It's clear she hasn't any Sikh male friends, doesn't like or relate to them.

So with this Dutch guy showing interest she could try and learn more about where his views on various topics lie. Before giving up altogether. Especially as they are clearly friends and attracted to each other.

If he’s hostile to even hearing about Sikhi, that’s not a good match. Keep those people as friends, but no more. 

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19 minutes ago, S1ngh said:

Admin Note: Whether you are troll or not (not easy to spot) but you are completely off the region you are mentioning and stressing on several replies that you are from this area which is 1000's of miles away from where you are posting from.... Please do note that we have many trolls where they post such topics pretending to be a sikh munda or kuri and then a story starts... i like non-sikh guys etc.. Not sure the purpose but we have seen the trend where sickos try to bring our kaum's morale down by such threads. Hope you are not one of them but sangat are aware of such things. 

I’m not OP but in general, what would you consider a good age to start looking for rishta? 

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42 minutes ago, S1ngh said:

Admin Note: Whether you are troll or not (not easy to spot) but you are completely off the region you are mentioning and stressing on several replies that you are from this area which is 1000's of miles away from where you are posting from....

So is the op genuine from where they say they are ji? 

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@Jassu

What made you get into Sikhi two years ago? 

BTW: In another thread you were talking about 'kinky stuff' and how you don't like it. I don't know if you've heard about Holland, but it's considered the 'motherland' of this type of stuff by many. 

Also, if you do decide to try with a desi guy, let me warn you, I've talked to many, and they have a strong aversion to 'breadhan brudhaan' so if you don't know already, you should learn how to make rotis and Panjabi food. They'd be taking them to work. 

Can you speak Panjabi?

 

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