Bored of worldly life miss amritvela simran sangat

[Guest Gupt]

God grace I use to go to amritvela simran with sangat daily and I was overjoyed happy just loved it. Last year I began working full time job n it was at night so I would miss amritvela simran.

I feel miserable without that sangat n simran and really dont have interest in earning so much money I just need a little to survive n I don't have interest in marriage or kids.

When I'm at work I'm 99 percent of the time watching sangat on YouTube during simran and participating.

Kind of feel depressed without being there and life seems pointless without simran n sangat.

I use to be a bouncer at a club n I would get to simran amritvela in the morning that was my favorite job because of the fighting not females I just spoke to them normally as if they were my family.

My current job is easy but 4 days out of the week n 3 days all get to do simran with sangat is like what I look forward too. Just to go to gurudwara is something I cant live with at all.

I go straight after work to the gurudwara but amritvela is different. 

Any suggestions 

[Not2Cool2Argue]

If you are not wearing a dastaar or Bana, and can't be identified as a singh then I think you can think abt being a bouncer. 

Our environment has a huge influence on us. So if u think that u r so unique and strong that you can be in a bar surrounded by drugs alcohol, frivolity and bad music and have no effect on you, then also think abt being a bouncer.

We do kirtan simran so that our mind becomes calm and clean. Don't you think being at a bar, does the opposite? Makes our mind chanchal: restless, seeking excitement, aggression, drama, lust? 

Also you can ask gurusahib and take a hukamnama. 

Also can't you find a job that allows you to attend amritvela? Like a 9 to 5? So you can attend simran from 12 to 4. Sleep from 6pm to 12 or something. 

[GurjantGnostic]

1 hour ago, Not2Cool2Argue said:

If you are not wearing a dastaar or Bana, and can't be identified as a singh then I think you can think abt being a bouncer. 

Our environment has a huge influence on us. So if u think that u r so unique and strong that you can be in a bar surrounded by drugs alcohol, frivolity and bad music and have no effect on you, then also think abt being a bouncer.

We do kirtan simran so that our mind becomes calm and clean. Don't you think being at a bar, does the opposite? Makes our mind chanchal: restless, seeking excitement, aggression, drama, lust? 

Also you can ask gurusahib and take a hukamnama. 

Also can't you find a job that allows you to attend amritvela? Like a 9 to 5? So you can attend simran from 12 to 4. Sleep from 6pm to 12 or something. 

I've done that work a lot. I wouldn't now. I think dude just wants the okey doke to bounce the titty bar, or was hoping to scandalize us. Either way. Meh. 

Also made no mention of working any clubs except for the strip club. 

Dude was actually looking to fight he'd go work at a football bar or a normal club where fights are much more prevalent but nobody's nude there so...

[Guest Gupt]

Please tell me where I said strip club. I'm talking about a nightclub or pub (preferably) not as dirty compared to nightclub. I'm talking about nightclubs or pubs not strip clubs I wont ever enter one.

Pay attention and not make assumptions here.

[Akalllllll]

I posted that now see If thoroughly read you can I never made one reference to strip club and I would never do it there. I was about to go to job interview but I asked front door guy hes like strip club I turned around and didnt go in.

I'm talking about specifically about pubs nightclubs it's a great experience to be put in stressful situations and use words of physical controls to stop the person.

I still went to amritvela right after work where sangat did simran. Hence I was looking to make more money and still get to sangat. 

Right now I work 4 days 32 hours all night shifts and I miss amritvela simran I feel off feel sick I have a prior chronic condition that feels amplified from not going to simran and feel off in every aspect compared to before where I worked as a casual since I tried to make everything work around amritvela schedule.

You need to not make assumptions and ask. I worked in a pub as amritardi I never made advancements to girls. I just did my job showered went to amritvela. 

[GurjantGnostic]

8 hours ago, Akalllllll said:

I posted that now see If thoroughly read you can I never made one reference to strip club and I would never do it there. I was about to go to job interview but I asked front door guy hes like strip club I turned around and didnt go in.

I'm talking about specifically about pubs nightclubs it's a great experience to be put in stressful situations and use words of physical controls to stop the person.

I still went to amritvela right after work where sangat did simran. Hence I was looking to make more money and still get to sangat. 

Right now I work 4 days 32 hours all night shifts and I miss amritvela simran I feel off feel sick I have a prior chronic condition that feels amplified from not going to simran and feel off in every aspect compared to before where I worked as a casual since I tried to make everything work around amritvela schedule.

You need to not make assumptions and ask. I worked in a pub as amritardi I never made advancements to girls. I just did my job showered went to amritvela. 

You made more than one post and the way you spoke of the girls totally 100 makes it sound like the strip club bro. 

Don't touch the drinks. Not empties. Not <banned word filter activated> bro. If you want to be as Rehit about it as possible. 

Why bring up girls at all? That's the least of the problems with working a normal bar bro. 

[GurjantGnostic]

8 hours ago, Akalllllll said:

I posted that now see If thoroughly read you can I never made one reference to strip club and I would never do it there. I was about to go to job interview but I asked front door guy hes like strip club I turned around and didnt go in.

I'm talking about specifically about pubs nightclubs it's a great experience to be put in stressful situations and use words of physical controls to stop the person.

I still went to amritvela right after work where sangat did simran. Hence I was looking to make more money and still get to sangat. 

Right now I work 4 days 32 hours all night shifts and I miss amritvela simran I feel off feel sick I have a prior chronic condition that feels amplified from not going to simran and feel off in every aspect compared to before where I worked as a casual since I tried to make everything work around amritvela schedule.

You need to not make assumptions and ask. I worked in a pub as amritardi I never made advancements to girls. I just did my job showered went to amritvela. 

Glad to see you made an account. Whole hearted welcome Ji. 

You would not believe the great variety of trolls we get here. Grab some popcorn and enjoy the show friend. 

[Guest Singh]

Gotta love these troll posts…dudes got a major dilemma he needs the sangat to solve 

[MisterrSingh]

On 3/7/2022 at 5:45 PM, Guest Gupt said:

God grace I use to go to amritvela simran with sangat daily and I was overjoyed happy just loved it. Last year I began working full time job n it was at night so I would miss amritvela simran.

I feel miserable without that sangat n simran and really dont have interest in earning so much money I just need a little to survive n I don't have interest in marriage or kids.

When I'm at work I'm 99 percent of the time watching sangat on YouTube during simran and participating.

Kind of feel depressed without being there and life seems pointless without simran n sangat.

I use to be a bouncer at a club n I would get to simran amritvela in the morning that was my favorite job because of the fighting not females I just spoke to them normally as if they were my family.

My current job is easy but 4 days out of the week n 3 days all get to do simran with sangat is like what I look forward too. Just to go to gurudwara is something I cant live with at all.

I go straight after work to the gurudwara but amritvela is different. 

Any suggestions 

Find a woman, get married, have children, boredom over.

If your "job" allows you to watch YouTube for 99% of the time, I'd suggest "work" is a generous descriptor of what you're doing. You want to socialise, except you want to exchange the club for the gurdwara. Fair enough. But you're bored. Find a more stimulating form of employment.