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3 hours ago, californiasardar1 said:

Veer Ji, please be careful about this Colombian woman. I know we all want to believe it when someone suggests they take a liking to us. But she is surely primarily (if not entirely) interested in you because you live in a more prosperous country. It hurts to admit it, but that is almost surely the case.

True but same in Punjab, just got to take a risk, see what hukaam is about right?

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1 hour ago, redoptics2013 said:

True but same in Punjab, just got to take a risk, see what hukaam is about right?

You are right that it is the same with women from Punjab.

But at least with a Sikh woman from Punjab, there are some cultural similarities and she will be nominally Sikh.

Serious question: why are you not concerned about the cultural and religious differences between you and the Colombian woman? I am curious.

 

I understand how refreshing it can feel to step into a new world seemingly filled with all kinds of possibilities and free of the restrictions and baggage of the world you are used to. But the novelty will wear off, and you will be left to deal with the reality of some important differences. Please think about this carefully bro.

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56 minutes ago, californiasardar1 said:

You are right that it is the same with women from Punjab.

But at least with a Sikh woman from Punjab, there are some cultural similarities and she will be nominally Sikh.

Serious question: why are you not concerned about the cultural and religious differences between you and the Colombian woman? I am curious.

 

I understand how refreshing it can feel to step into a new world seemingly filled with all kinds of possibilities and free of the restrictions and baggage of the world you are used to. But the novelty will wear off, and you will be left to deal with the reality of some important differences. Please think about this carefully bro.

Ohh she wants to learn about Sikhi and I have explained Gurbani to her, she also reading Spanish version of Guru Granth Sahib Ji 

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13 hours ago, redoptics2013 said:

Same as me really, on the path to Sikhi,  good job, decent looking,  in shape and wants to start a family and drama free . 

Any race who is willing to come into Sikhi? 

I remember reading your post yrs ago about your wife death it was really moving. Curious to know how you reached this point in your life next chapter. Been going through tough time in my life 

I've seen many Sikh guys marrying difference races (there is a saying gora faso panth vadao lol) and raising kids in Sikhi .....good to expand the panth outside punjabi imo lol 

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1 hour ago, Kau89r8 said:

Any race who is willing to come into Sikhi? 

I remember reading your post yrs ago about your wife death it was really moving. Curious to know how you reached this point in your life next chapter. Been going through tough time in my life 

I've seen many Sikh guys marrying difference races (there is a saying gora faso panth vadao lol) and raising kids in Sikhi .....good to expand the panth outside punjabi imo lol 

Pretty much every mixed race Sikh boy that I've seen raised wearing a guti ends up cutting their hair. 

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