When showering make sure you take care to clean the backs (and around) your ears more than you normally would. Put a triple antibiotic on the infected area and try changing how you tie the dastaar. Make sure the part that covers your ears is evenly spread out all over the ear so one portion doesnt have a lot of pressure that would end up hurting the ear. Try something new and see if it helps reduce the pain, you shouldn't be experiencing any pain around your ears if done right. You can make the