What other Sikh girls do. Why should it bother you ? so much. She is not your family. Not your daughter. She's got her own mind to make her own decisions. Just as you have yours. Do girls make notes on what you do. Keep tabs on you. Then talk about you. Write about you. Start threads about you. Post messages about you. And then base their opinion on an entire gender of an entire religion based entirely on what they might have heard YOU do ? Yes. It's as silly and irratio