wolverhamptonsingh

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

First of all i have never heard of a sikh wedding happning at home. Your friend must have a big house if the wedding is going to take place at home. It depends because if they are amritdhari and the house is pure no meat or any other stuff that's prohibited in Sikhism then that should be fine I don't see no beadbi to happen. However if they are not Gursikhs then that's a problem. Can I ask why are they having the wedding at home?

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

They have a big house and they aren't inviting to many people, also they are not Gursikhs and there is meat and alchol stored at their house so thats why in my original post I was saying it is BEADBI

Bhul chuk maaf

Food for thought: would you also stop them from bringing Guru Sahib to their house if they wish to do a kirtan program?

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

thats a very good point you make and I honestly don't have an answer for it but from my point of view I think all weddings, Kirtans which involve the reading of Guru Granth Sahib should only happen at the Gurdwara, but thats just my point of view.

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

In around three weeks time a family friend of ours is having a wedding, on the wedding day itself they aren't going to go the Gurdwara to get married but instead are going to bring Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji to their house and do the wedding at their house. I have only just found this out today and have tried to call the person in question but havent got through to them yet, now I've spoken to some people about this and they told me that your being over the top and if the Gurdwara is allowing them to do it then what is the problem, but in my view this is BEADBI plain and simple and I will make sure it won't happen, I will also try to get in contact with the Gurdwara as it is also unacceptable that they are allowing this to happen in the first place. I just wondered what the Sangat think of this situation and whether or not they agree with me.

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

Hi everyone I need some advice, bascially for a few years now I have had a problem going to the toilet and after having going to the doctor recently I have found out the only solution is to have a circiusmion operation, now I protested to the doctor that I did not want to have this operation as it goes against my faith but he told me it is the only solution as if left untreated it will get much worse later on. I read online that if a operation is for medical reasons then it is allowed but I am still debating whether or not to have the operation, so does anybody have any suggestions please?

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