I'm a amritdhari singh and am not able to find a amritdhari kaur. I found a non amritdhari kaur but is that acceptable for me to marry since she is not amritdhari? I know I can find a wife from punjab who is amritdhari no problem but then i will have to say i'm a hindu by having to get the marriage certificate under the hindu marriage act. Whats worse having to declare urself hindu or marry a nonamirtdhari kaur. I think going to punjab and declaring yourself hindu is worse. Any suggestions?