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  1. WJKK WJKF

    I'm a grade 11 student and I've always done good in school, my marks are usually in the 90's. But the problem is that this year I've been completely stressed out with things outside of school and my marks have dropped a lot. Some marks are even in the high 70's. Report cards are coming soon and I don't know what I'm supposed to do now. I have no one to help me in this situation and my parents are really strict and I know I'm in huge trouble right now. It is my fault, I put myself through too than I could handle. Also, school's only been going on for two months and we've only had about 1-2 tests in each subject, I still have 8 months to pull everything up but my parents aren't going to take that excuse. Is there anything I can do to avoid the excessive amounts of shittar that I'm going to get soon? Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

    WJKK WJKF

  2. Most are vegetarian.

    I have only ever met one true vegan who was actually intolerant to milk and lactose.

    True vegan means no dairy or any other animal products or by-products at all.

    Singhs love pizza. Vegetarian. :p

    Rennet in pizza cheese contains meat though. Should I give that up? Because many people consider it to be non vegetarian.

  3. VJKK VJKF

    I'm 16 and I hope to be blessed with amrit in the future. A question I had was, are most amrit dhari's vegetarian or vegan? Everyone gives me different opinions on what's right and wrong. I'm willing to become vegan, but I want to hear more about the topic first.

    Thanks.

  4. you should explain this to your parents and give it a try. tell them you want to experience how it feels to be vegetarian according to sikh rehat maryada, i can not see why they would have a problem with you wanting to experience this.

    My moms completely fine with it at this point, my dad on the other hand will take a while. But eventually he'll just give up. Thank you to everyone for giving their input.

  5. WJKK WJKF

    I want to stop eating eggs because I want to be able to take Amrit one day. The problem I'm facing is that my parents aren't in favour of me stopping. I'm 15 so they still have control over what I eat. Is there anyway I can convince them? Any quotes I could show them? Any health issues that I could show them? Anything would greatly be appreciated.

  6. sireeraag mehlaa 5.

    Siree Raag, Fifth Mehl:

    jaa ka-o muskal at banai dho-ee ko-ay na day-ay.

    When you are confronted with terrible hardships, and no one offers you any support,

    laagoo ho-ay dusmanaa saak bhe bhaj khalay.

    when your friends turn into enemies, and even your relatives have deserted you,

    sabho bhajai aasraa chukai sabh asraa-o.

    and when all support has given way, and all hope has been lost

    chit aavai os paarbarahm lagai na tatee vaa-o. ||1||

    -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, even the hot wind shall not touch you. ||1||

    saahib nitaani-aa kaa taan.

    Our Lord and Master is the Power of the powerless.

    aa-ay na jaa-ee thir sadaa gur sabdee sach jaan. ||1|| rahaa-o.

    He does not come or go; He is Eternal and Permanent. Through the Word of the Guru's Shabad, He is known as True. ||1||Pause||

    jay ko hovai dublaa nang bhukh kee peer.

    If you are weakened by the pains of hunger and poverty,

    damrhaa palai naa pavai naa ko dayvai Dheer.

    with no money in your pockets, and no one will give you any comfort,

    su-aarath su-aa-o na ko karay naa kichh hovai kaaj.

    and no one will satisfy your hopes and desires, and none of your works is accomplished

    chit aavai os paarbarahm taa nihchal hovai raaj. ||2||

    -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall obtain the eternal kingdom. ||2||

    jaa ka-o chintaa bahut bahut dayhee vi-aapai rog.

    When you are plagued by great and excessive anxiety, and diseases of the body;

    garisat kutamb palayti-aa kaday harakh kaday sog.

    when you are wrapped up in the attachments of household and family, sometimes feeling joy, and then other times sorrow;




    ga-on karay chahu kunt kaa gharhee na baisan so-ay.

    when you are wandering around in all four directions, and you cannot sit or sleep even for a moment

    chit aavai os paarbarahm tan man seetal ho-ay. ||3||

    -if you come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then your body and mind shall be cooled and soothed. ||3||

    kaam karoDh mohi vas kee-aa kirpan lobh pi-aar.

    When you are under the power of sexual desire, anger and worldly attachment, or a greedy miser in love with your wealth;

    chaaray kilvikh un agh kee-ay ho- aa asur sanghaar.

    if you have committed the four great sins and other mistakes; even if you are a murderous fiend

    pothee geet kavit kichh kaday na karan Dhari-aa.

    who has never taken the time to listen to sacred books, hymns and poetry

    chit aavai os paarbarahm taa nimakh simrat tari-aa. ||4||

    -if you then come to remember the Supreme Lord God, and contemplate Him, even for a moment, you shall be saved.

    ||4||

    saasat simrit bayd chaar mukhaagar bichray.

    People may recite by heart the Shaastras, the Simritees and the four Vedas;

    tapay tapeesar jogee-aa tirath gavan karay.

    they may be ascetics, great, self-disciplined Yogis; they may visit sacred shrines of pilgrimage

    khat karmaa tay dugunai poojaa kartaa naa-ay.

    and perform the six ceremonial rituals, over and over again, performing worship services and ritual bathings.

    rang na lagee paarbarahm taa sarpar narkay jaa-ay. ||5||

    Even so, if they have not embraced love for the Supreme

    Lord God, then they shall surely go to hell. ||5||

    raaj milak sikdaaree-aa ras bhogan bisthaar.

    You may possess empires, vast estates, authority over others, and the enjoyment of myriads of pleasures;

    baag suhaavay sohnay chalai hukam afaar.

    you may have delightful and beautiful gardens, and issue unquestioned commands;

    rang tamaasay baho biDhee chaa- ay lag rahi-aa.

    you may have enjoyments and entertainments of all sorts and kinds, and continue to enjoy exciting pleasures


    bahut Dhanaadh achaarvant sobhaa nirmal reet.

    You may possess vast riches, maintain virtuous conduct, have a spotless reputation and observe religious customs;

    maat pitaa sut bhaa-ee-aa saajan sang pareet.

    you may have the loving affections of mother, father, children, siblings and friends;

    laskar tarkasband band jee-o jee-o saglee keet.

    you may have armies well-equipped with weapons, and all may salute you with respect;

    chit na aa-i-o paarbarahm taa kharh rasaatal deet. ||7||

    But still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, then you shall be taken and consigned to the most hideous hell! ||7||

    kaa-i-aa rog na chhidar kichh naa kichh kaarhaa sog.

    You may have a body free of disease and deformity, and have no worries or grief at all;

    mirat na aavee chit tis ahinis bhogai bhog.

    you may be unmindful of death, and night and day revel in pleasures;

    sabh kichh keeton aapnaa jee-ay na sank Dhari-aa.

    you may take everything as your own, and have no fear in your mind at all;

    chit na aa-i-o paarbarahm jamkankar vas pari-aa. ||8||

    but still, if you do not come to remember the Supreme Lord God, you shall fall under the power of the Messenger of Death. ||8||

    kirpaa karay jis paarbarahm hovai saaDhoo sang.

    The Supreme Lord showers His Mercy, and we find the

    Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy.

    ji-o ji-o oh vaDhaa-ee-ai ti-o ti-o har si-o rang.

    The more time we spend there, the more we come to love the Lord.

    duhaa siri-aa kaa khasam aap avar na doojaa thaa-o.

    The Lord is the Master of both worlds; there is no other place of rest.

    satgur tuthai paa-i-aa naanak sachaa naa-o. ||9||1||26||

    When the True Guru is pleased and satisfied, O Nanak, the

    True Name is obtained. ||9||1||26||

  7. WJKK WJKF

    Reading and understanding gurbani changes how we see the world. We learn so much every day just by understanding it. Ever since I started reading it my life has positively changed so much. So that's why I'm wondering what shabad do you think has changed your life the most and which shabad have you personally learnt the most from?

    Nanak Naam Jahaaz Hai
O

    Nanak, the name of the Lord is like a ship

    ChadeSo Uttray Paar


    Whoever Boards It Crosses Over (The Life-Ocean).

    Jo Shardha Kare Sevde


    Those Who Meditate On Him with Faith and devotion,

    Gur Paar, Utaaran Haar


    The Guru Helps Them In crossing over."

  8. WJKK WJKF

    I have a friend who's 16 and she's been suffering from this problem. For most of her life, she has been caring and ready to help anyone in any situation. For the past little while she's realized that those feelings have been shutting down. It's more natural for her to get upset in a situation where she has a problem rather than a situation where someone else (who she cares about) has a problem. It used to be the complete opposite before this year. She really wants the old state of mind back, but it feels as if her mind just doesn't care about much anymore.

    Is this because of age?

    Any tips to help get back into the old state of mind?

    Thank you in advance for replies :)

    WJKK WJKF

  9. WJKK WJKF

    I wanted to start a discussion on if it's wrong to have gurbani and path on our phones. I've realized that we take our phones everywhere (a lot of the time they're even in our pockets when we go to the bathroom). So would you think that it's a good idea to be carrying path on your phone?

    lol btw this may seem like a silly question, but I've seen this discussion come up many times between uncles at the gurdwara.

  10. Tell Them your gonna cut your hair/beard, start drinking,smoking, drug dealing, never gonna work, start stealing and taking drugs or do they want you to stay the same wear a dhamalla and keep you beard open, that should do it and make them think, as for your aunt take no notice of here she should worry about her own family (without being disrespectful), keep your faith and path strong, you are a son to be proud of !! :biggrin2:

    LOL I know for sure that it'll work with my dad... but my massi's whole goal looks like bringing me down in life

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