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Terafufer.. The thing us.. we aint together.. we are no boyfriend.. neither girlfriend.. just work friends, now th thing is.. she has indirectly told me that if she makes her self happy.. ither wonts be.. i clicked on as this was regarding about us.. if she wants to go with her parents wishes.. then all ai can do it stand down.. and that it what I will do.. as long as she will be happy. I font want no arguments in her family or mine.. its a hard decision but.. I guess life goes on.

Terafufer.. The thing us.. we aint together.. we are no boyfriend.. neither girlfriend.. just work friends, now th thing is.. she has indirectly told me that if she makes her self happy.. ither wonts be.. i clicked on as this was regarding about us.. if she wants to go with her parents wishes.. then all ai can do it stand down.. and that it what I will do.. as long as she will be happy. I font want no arguments in her family or mine.. its a hard decision but.. I guess life goes on.

True say.. preeet, thanks for your advice on this.. its a hard thing.. I believe in your words.. I want someone to love me for who I am.. not what I am.

This is the problem, I believe castes dont exist.. but family's still do.. need to work something out.. thanks for your help Simran.

Yes I have.. but ideally could do with finding a story or experience with exact same caste as I am.. and she is.. its a hard topic.

Hey Simran, I have seen this also.. and a few other clips shown on youtube regarding this.. Idealy I would love to find out if there would be any way possible, we could be together, my family will accept the girl but obviously they wont accept me as I aint the same caste. Im a sikh.. im a human.. people say actions speak louder than words so why does a name matter.. pisses me off big time, we're all humans at the end of the day.. and the old generation need to move on. If you cant be happy.. why live. Has anyone had any expperience of this issue?

Hi Guys, This is one very important question I neex a true answer to. I am from a Shimba caste, and the girl is from a Jatt caste. I have seen this girl I really like.. it has been almost two years and I have literally fallen in love with her. She knows I really really like her but there is one problem stopping this, her family. I have recently been told that because of my surname, its the reason why we cant take the relationship further. Her family are quite Jatt caste strict background. I do not understand why sokhism have casfte issues.. I aint no gora.. no black or any other religion.. I am a human.. I am a sikh.. and I need an answer of what can be done.. If you really love someone, but you cant be happy yourself because you will upset many other people is not how youshould live your life.