Sukhsimran_Kaur

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

sorry havent replied back in a while jus worried with results.

I told my parents about the gyaani, i didnt mention anything that he did or sed 2 me but i told them that he seems really dodgy and my parents think im all confused and being silly..and laughed it off.. i duno how 2 tel them.

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

I have pm-ed you sukhsimran, tell me if it gets through.

yes the PM got through, Thanks

Sory admin ji!

She used to go every evening to the gurdwra to do keertan. She felt uncomfortable with him and his subtle comments towards her but forgave him and became his mate.. exchanged numbers etc.

He started to phone her saying disgusting things like "i wonder how it would be like to hav s*x with you" etc.. And whenever she hung up on him/didnt answer the fone he would get emotional and persuade her.. if not blackmail her.

They started meeting up (shes too naive) and then once he met her on the excuse of learning english but he came onto her.. yet she kept forgiving him!?! This is the part that fills me with anger.

*sighs*

I was stopped when I went to beat the cr*p outa him. Instead, the ones who knew told the committee and they were dodgy themselves. What they did, they transfered him to Southall, and announced it on stage that the giani had a "chakar" with a kirtani. Funily enough theres only 3 kirtanis!!!

Now everyone blames her for corrupting him and so many rumours like they were caught by their mother "doing stuff".

her life is jacked up now.. becuase sahe kept it on the low for over a YEAR! I only found out when i Hacked her email.

Dont be afraid.. let someone know asap!

funny how everyone just starts 2 gunn down the giani's...have u ever seen what type of girl was behind? I mean

1stly giving a number out 2 a giani, what were u thinkin? If tha man sed dirty things, how can u becom mates with that person? If he's sed it 1nce whats stopping him from sayin it again?

2ndly say you did give the number out you received calls with the giani saying dirty things, why couldnt you just end it there, say look yeh I had given you one chance you didnt sort yourself out so its over. Then change your sim of your phone, its not that hard. Nowadays go on to www.o2.co.uk and u can get up 4 free o2 simz...not hard is it?

3rdly Blackmailing????????? How can a giani backmail you, if you didnt do anything. What would he went and said, if you knew you were in the right all you had to say was Waheguru Ji knows the truth and as long as THEY know the truth nothing is above them.

4thly If you go and tell the society a year later its obvious that questions would start 2 arisen. What was wrong in telling your parents before during the phone call situation, and say, look yeh mum & dad, this giani @ the guru ghar isnt getting off my back, i said nothing to him but can you sort him out, im sure your parents would have supported you at the time.

I hate to say it but majority of the time, the girls get themselves in troublle, whether they're suppose 2 get in trouble, because they were wrong or whether they didnt have nothing to do with it at all however still get in the wrong.

maafi jio if the words hurt, but to some extent they are true.

Akaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal

fair place comments but it is really hard to tell someone, becase you dont know if you can trust them.

the giani asked my mate for my number, not that she gave it to him obviously but he hasnt said anything to me on my face, but I dont like his attitude and the way he stares...its not right. Its not always the girls fault, I wudn hav sed i've done somthing bad thats made him do that.

I'm just a normal girl who goes to find peace @ Guru Ghar where I can sit down and try to solve my problems.

fist of fury ji, i've just registered with sikhsangat. But every time i try 2 send pm, it cumz with an error ? ? ?