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Pesh For Eggs And Gelatine (Accident)? 1 2
by Guest GuptSingh- 17 replies
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VJKK VJKF A while back I was with a few Singh's and they decided to go to Boston Pizza. I don't eat out much unless I'm 100% sure the food is safe (the only time I eat fast-food is if the sangat I'm with wants to go eat something). I ended up finding out today that Boston Pizza uses egg in their bread. At the time my mentality was that the older Singh's probably know if it's fine so I didn't question anything due to the circumstance. Do I have to go pesh for this? Or would ardas be enough? Another situation happened to me a while back where I accidentally ate a small amount of yogurt that had gelatine. I asked a few different people and they said because it was an accid…
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Sikhi matrimonial site recommendations
by Guest MrSingh7- 9 replies
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Hi, Is anyone able to recommend sikhi matrimonial sites/apps as i'm struggling currently. Looking for Sehajdhari/Amritdhari women. I know Shaadi.com is taken the mick out of but has anyone used or would recommend? Thanks for any replies in advance.
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Do you iron your kenyan turban ?
by Guest happysingh- 7 replies
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For those who tie the kenyan style turban, do you always iron your pagh after folding it, or do you just tie it after ironing ? I have never really ever ironed it, I just tie it after folding it. Have you ever done both ? Does it make a difference ? Also I wonder, how long do you tie that pagh until you change it ?
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Mri Scan And Kakaars 1 2 3
by Guest Question- 22 replies
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Im due an MRI scan soon and im guessing i will have to take off kara and kirpan? anyone had one?
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WJKK WJKF So i was wondering was it Khalistanis that killed Chamkila? I don't think anyone has been arrested, i don,t even think there was an investigation! but lots of people say it was khalistanis who did it because he used dirty lyrics etc I have nothing against Khalistanis, but if it was them then wasn't the murder outside the realm of religion, politics, Sikhs being suppressed etc Killing a corrupt politician or any man in power who has murdered Sikhs is understandable, but a singer and his wife? ...
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Hi All, I havent been on this forum for a while but I thought id give it a try again as it helped me through some rough times earlier in my life. I wanted to seek for guidance on sikhi and marriage ... I noticed a post earlier on sanjog etc. and it got me thinking about my own life and marriage. For context, I have been married 3 years and things are not working out. When we met, I looked in to sanjog alot and it felt like it was written. However, as these years have gone by its become apparent that we no longer align with each other and our marriage is struggling. We dont seem to understand each other and things have fallen apart. We are at a stage now whe…
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Would love to hear some spiritual experiences you guys have experienced!! I think this would be an interesting topic as it would motivate other Gursikhs to do Naam Simran 🤔 There's another website where people have talked about their experiences but it's dead now (Sikhawareness), most of the people have left the forum so now it's time for the new generation to talk about experiences!!
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Mind wandering during Simran
by Guest Pawandeep- 1 reply
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I have a question for which I need suggestion/help from the members basee on their experience and learning. Whenever I sit to do path or simran, my mind wanders a lot. Its been 5 months now but I cant fix my mind at one place even for 2 minutes. Sometimes when I am doing path I would not even realise that I have finished half of the path and not being there. My mind is day dreaming and thinking various things and the visions are in front of me This is really painful as I try my level best to concentrate but after a while I am somewhere else. I want to be able to develop my focus and grow from there. I …
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Moving Into A Haunted House Help! Need Gurbani 1 2 3 4
by Guest japjeev- 1 follower
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So where i live they have auction on haunted house and they go away cheap after a person goes inside and checks it. I have won it and i went to take a look at the house and well i saw much paranormal activity and the house seems to get barely any sunlight. so i was thinking since gurbani has so much power it can be a profit for me. i can get the house and do some gurbani with family. SO i was wandering what are some type of gurbani and paaths i can do? Yes i will be doing akhand path but just to be safe. i want to do more. SO any suggestions?
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Pakistan Rishta
by Guest curiousjah- 1 follower
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It seems like with feminism becoming a strong issue and difficulty of finding traditional women in western and indian sangat, just curious as to what process might be in terms of finding a Sikh girl from Pakistan?
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How long can I stay engaged before planning for a marriage
by Guest Rianpreet- 1 follower
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I am getting engaged to a girl. But we both are 20yrs. We will be waiting for marriage after we complete university which is 4-5years from now? Is that allowed as per the guidelines?
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(dsgmc-sangat q&a) what to do?
by Guest .1699- 1 follower
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I was born in a semi Sikh family (mother Hindu, father Sikh ) .my grandmother was amritdhari but my grandfather is Hindu . i am some how attracted toward "Sikhi" and want to become Sikh but mother is against it she do not want to see me as a Sikh . she has been fighting with my father for not keeping (kesh) I want to follow reheat maryada but i am enable to do so. i hesitate to talk about all this to my father. I do not know what to do ...
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Did any of the Guru's marry outside their caste? 1 2
by Guest Question- 1 follower
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Did any of the Guru ji's marry outside their caste? Iv heard that Mata Gujri (Gujjar Kaur) was of a Gujjar background?
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Accidentally drunk someone else water
by Guest Amandeep Singh- 1 follower
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh i am a amritdhari Sikh and I have accidentally drunk my kids water what do I do now please help me as it is playing on my head
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I Have Had Pre-Maritial Sex, Help! 1 2 3 4
by Guest SwaggSingh- 1 follower
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i am not a amritdhari, i am 16 and i keep my hair and all my parents are amritdharis and i just had physical relationship with my girlfriend. I feel really guilty about it. But it just happenned and i coudnt control myself. So am i going to hell now . because i was thinking of getting amrit when i am older. and now i regret this.
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