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Moving Into A Haunted House Help! Need Gurbani 1 2 3 4
by Guest japjeev- 1 follower
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So where i live they have auction on haunted house and they go away cheap after a person goes inside and checks it. I have won it and i went to take a look at the house and well i saw much paranormal activity and the house seems to get barely any sunlight. so i was thinking since gurbani has so much power it can be a profit for me. i can get the house and do some gurbani with family. SO i was wandering what are some type of gurbani and paaths i can do? Yes i will be doing akhand path but just to be safe. i want to do more. SO any suggestions?
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Pakistan Rishta
by Guest curiousjah- 1 follower
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It seems like with feminism becoming a strong issue and difficulty of finding traditional women in western and indian sangat, just curious as to what process might be in terms of finding a Sikh girl from Pakistan?
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How long can I stay engaged before planning for a marriage
by Guest Rianpreet- 1 follower
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I am getting engaged to a girl. But we both are 20yrs. We will be waiting for marriage after we complete university which is 4-5years from now? Is that allowed as per the guidelines?
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(dsgmc-sangat q&a) what to do?
by Guest .1699- 1 follower
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I was born in a semi Sikh family (mother Hindu, father Sikh ) .my grandmother was amritdhari but my grandfather is Hindu . i am some how attracted toward "Sikhi" and want to become Sikh but mother is against it she do not want to see me as a Sikh . she has been fighting with my father for not keeping (kesh) I want to follow reheat maryada but i am enable to do so. i hesitate to talk about all this to my father. I do not know what to do ...
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Did any of the Guru's marry outside their caste? 1 2
by Guest Question- 1 follower
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Did any of the Guru ji's marry outside their caste? Iv heard that Mata Gujri (Gujjar Kaur) was of a Gujjar background?
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Accidentally drunk someone else water
by Guest Amandeep Singh- 1 follower
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Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh i am a amritdhari Sikh and I have accidentally drunk my kids water what do I do now please help me as it is playing on my head
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I Have Had Pre-Maritial Sex, Help! 1 2 3 4
by Guest SwaggSingh- 1 follower
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i am not a amritdhari, i am 16 and i keep my hair and all my parents are amritdharis and i just had physical relationship with my girlfriend. I feel really guilty about it. But it just happenned and i coudnt control myself. So am i going to hell now . because i was thinking of getting amrit when i am older. and now i regret this.
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why dasam granth bani is not included in guru granth sahib 1 2
by Guest why- 1 follower
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hey yeah i was just wondering why is the bani of dasam granth not included in the guru granth sahib? why did guru ji not add his bani into guru granth sahib ji. im not one of those anti dasam granth people lol! i read jaap sahib. its just that some anti dasam granth person asked me this question and i didnt know what to say! i said guru ji gave gur gaddi to guru granth sahib ji because it contains the jyoth of guru nanak dev ji and the 4 gurus that followed him. but then he was like why didnt guru gobind singh include his bani in guru granth sahib. i didnt know what to say! i was thinking that the reason might be because dasam granth was like several book…
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Mri Scan And Kakaars 1 2 3
by Guest Question- 1 follower
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Im due an MRI scan soon and im guessing i will have to take off kara and kirpan? anyone had one?
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Dasvandh
by Guest Gupt- 1 follower
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With dasvandh, do you deduct it from gross or net pay. If you deduct from take home pay, then is it 10% from your net pay after taking out rent, mortgage, bills etc?
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difference Gurbani Paath is NOT enough
by Guest goabove !!!- 2 followers
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Reading gurbani doing Paath is not enough. This is not my own opinion. Gurbani clearly tells us: ਪੜਿਐ ਮੈਲੁ ਨ ਉਤਰੈ ਪੂਛਹੁ ਗਿਆਨੀਆ ਜਾਇ।।੧।। ਪੜਿ ਪੜਿ ਥਾਕੇ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਨ ਆਈ।। And we can see this in many aspects. So many many people pray every day but still carry worries ,hate and anger in their minds. Why have I seen here many posts about amritdhaaris who are unhappy, have anxiety? No one!!! talks about Simran. Yes gurbani is wonderful and powerful. But if one only reads it, and only takes that giaan but doesn't do abhyaas kmai, simran it's just more ego. There's a big difference between reading gurbani and doing naam Simran meditation. There is…
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did raja porus speak punjabi!? 1 2
by Guest itsMe- 1 follower
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wjkk wjkf Just wondering did raja porus speak punjabi!? just been reading about the history of Punjab recently.
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Confused To Do Paat?
by Guest Gupt- 1 follower
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Well i've got this urge of doing paat! - i wanna do it and feel like doing it to refresh the mind and get closer to God. I eat meat/fish (whenever), me and my family buy meat/fish and we have acohol in the house. I wanna try and set days of consuming meat/fish, i do wanna (in time) stop eating meat..fish maybe. Anywho, we have Gutkeh in our house in the top room, we cleaned our house and moved things.. and we had acohol in that room and we moved it in my room ( we had a wedding! ) And in the back of my mind it sprung to me that when i do Kirtan Sohila ( you do it just before u go sleep, in bed ) that i have acohol in my room. I dont want this to set me back, as i wanted…
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What is the "Fifty" when it comes to turbans? 1 2
by Guest dfteee- 1 follower
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What is the "Fifty" when it comes to turbans?
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Any Easy to understand punjabi katha
by Guest Learning punjabi- 2 followers
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Learning punjabi and wanted to know which punjabi kathvachaks speak in an easily understandable punjabi which will help me
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it.
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Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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