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Throughout history we have been tested and tried. We remained steadfast and resiliant. The events that took place in Punjab and outside of Punjab in the past years made it quite clear we are big players in the game which kept the world powers on edge. It started off with the drug pandemic in Punjab, to the uproar by Bhai Amritpal Singh to the Farmer's protest. Outside of Punjab the deaths of Avtar Singh Khanda (UK) and Hardeep Singh Nijjar (Canada) created a stir within our community. This was probably our first real opportunity to establish something but how quickly members of our own community forget history. We have been a threat to civilization in the past and th…
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I Have Had Pre-Maritial Sex, Help! 1 2 3 4
by Guest SwaggSingh- 1 follower
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i am not a amritdhari, i am 16 and i keep my hair and all my parents are amritdharis and i just had physical relationship with my girlfriend. I feel really guilty about it. But it just happenned and i coudnt control myself. So am i going to hell now . because i was thinking of getting amrit when i am older. and now i regret this.
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Anand karaj
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Vaheguru Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh Ji I want to do an simple Anand karaj. I'm amritdhaari. Can anyone tell me how a simple Anand karaj looks like? Does it go for 1,2 or 3 days? Like the day there you do the lava and a second day for a little "party"? What to do after lava? Music alcohol,dancing, .and are there other things which shouldn't be in an gursikh Anand karaj? Vaheguru Ji ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji ki fateh
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Thinking about someone 1 2 3
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I keep thinking about someone that I should no longer be thinking about and Im not sure what to do? I want to forget them, they forgot me, But I cant shake this. My life has moved on but my memory hasn't
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Social Anxiety
by Guest SINGH- 2 followers
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 17 year Amritdhari boy. I have Social Anxiety Disorder and i also have shyness since as long as i coukd remember . This disorder disables in almost every walk of my life. 😭 I am just anxious all the time whether while speaking, socializing or even just standing in people. It is so hard for me to practice Sikhi like this. I cant even attend Gurudwara Sahib as i feel so much anxiety meeting people there. I prefer to remain quiet, and alone . But i dont want to spoil my life like this. Any Gursikh , please suggest me or advice me what should i do to start bringing a change in my life . I want to become a Sikh . Ple…
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difference Gurbani Paath is NOT enough
by Guest goabove !!!- 1 follower
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Reading gurbani doing Paath is not enough. This is not my own opinion. Gurbani clearly tells us: ਪੜਿਐ ਮੈਲੁ ਨ ਉਤਰੈ ਪੂਛਹੁ ਗਿਆਨੀਆ ਜਾਇ।।੧।। ਪੜਿ ਪੜਿ ਥਾਕੇ ਸਾਂਤਿ ਨ ਆਈ।। And we can see this in many aspects. So many many people pray every day but still carry worries ,hate and anger in their minds. Why have I seen here many posts about amritdhaaris who are unhappy, have anxiety? No one!!! talks about Simran. Yes gurbani is wonderful and powerful. But if one only reads it, and only takes that giaan but doesn't do abhyaas kmai, simran it's just more ego. There's a big difference between reading gurbani and doing naam Simran meditation. There is…
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Amritdhari living 1 2
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hi. i am new to sikhi and i going over the rehat maryada, i still have few questions about amritdhari living, hoping i could ask. 1) i've read it is mandatory to do cold bath in the mornings? is that true or do warm showers work? 2) during bathing, ive also read that you need to keep your head covered with a cloth until you wash your hair and then tie it again as soon as the soap is out. i'm confused on this, is it mandatory? what does it mean? how does the hair dry? 3) do you have to wash with soap everyday, or soap in main parts, and water on rest work? 4) as someone who has heavy and curly hair, it takes a long time to manage and dry. do…
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Adultery with Fiancé
by Guest Patit- 3 followers
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WJKK WJKF, Looking for advice, me and my now wife while we were engaged due to the power of Kaam we fell from the path of Sikhi and committed adultery. I really want to go pesh infront of panj pyare however my wife is scared. What advice could you give us?
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IPTV
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Does anyone use IPTV? Used it before but then went "legit" but thinking of getting again for all the international channels, but doesn't feel right as its not entirely legal.
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Not sure if this is correct section. But thinking of doing some investments.
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My mom has cancer please help me. 1 2 3 4
by Guest Nimani- 33 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru Ji Ki fateh. My mom has a cancer at very rare place, the doctors are not giving much hope. But I have confidence in god and I know ardaas is always heard by our guru . I read before posting this that everyone is prayin for bibi Jagjeet kaur to get well I m praying to god for her too. Can I please ask sangat to do ardaas for my mom. She is in a lot of pain she wants to amrit shak as soon as she can but our gurudwaras do it when there is a mahapurush coming from India. But may be on baisakhi. But pleAse can I beg in front of you sangat to please do ardaas or mool mantar for my mom. That's all I can do for her right now I want my mom to get w…
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Moving Into A Haunted House Help! Need Gurbani 1 2 3 4
by Guest japjeev- 30 replies
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So where i live they have auction on haunted house and they go away cheap after a person goes inside and checks it. I have won it and i went to take a look at the house and well i saw much paranormal activity and the house seems to get barely any sunlight. so i was thinking since gurbani has so much power it can be a profit for me. i can get the house and do some gurbani with family. SO i was wandering what are some type of gurbani and paaths i can do? Yes i will be doing akhand path but just to be safe. i want to do more. SO any suggestions?
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Is everything karma
by Guest Kylie- 1 follower
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Is everything we go through in life result of our own actions/karma or can there be other factors involved. I have been going through tough time and wonder what have I done in my past life to deserve this.
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Alcoholic
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How does one help an alcoholic who doesn’t want help or think he has a problem.
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Male pattern baldness and Confidence 1 2 3
by Guest A Human Being- 21 replies
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Sat Sri Akal Sariyaan nu. I am at a bit of crossroads in my life and needed some guidance from people here who might be more knowledgeable and experienced than me. I am 28, I am not very religious , like I very rarely do path,but I do try to uphold the values of Sikhi and apply it in my life wherever I can. I suffer from male pattern baldness, so much that so that I pretty much have lost my hair on the front and top. This used to bother me somewhat but since I wear a turban, it was not that noticeable to people. Recently however a lot of my relatives , most of who are practicing sikhs themselves, joke sometimes about my receding hairline and comment th…
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Was listening to Sant Ji's katha on youtube. Sant ji stated apart from the traditional raags, there is nothing wrong if Kirtan is sung in other NON - Raags set up by our Guru Ji's. His example: Think of poison in a bowl. Drinking the poison then blaming the bowl is silly. The poison is bad not the bowl. Likewise, we will never call a bowl Amrit once it contains Amrit init. Sameway it's not the raags being good / bad... it's WHAT we put into those raags. How many times Kirtan was sung but on a track of sum Bollywood tune? It is happening in Gurudwara by Raagis! Youtube also has Kaweshri jatha singing history of 1984, on Dr Dre's - Still Dre track. Rap instrumental/ Bolly tunes stand neutral. We can either put bad things and sing with our own remixes and lyrics... or we can recreate to sing Shabads of Gurbabi, kirtan and Sikh Prachaar over them. -
Suraj Prakash is History on our Gurus. The main Gurudwara in Leicester does katha on it 6 days a week. To get the answer very important to listen to WHOLE of Suraj Prakash.
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Well, also need to take into account what the Country 's law state. Allowed marriage at 16 - 17 WITH family consent and BOTH couple's consent. BOTH must be 16 -17! 18 plus no consent needed for marriage only both couples. Used to be 18 plus but nowadays with "Kids cleverness " they act like know it alls so I think it 16 plus?? Joking. Only paapi / kaami 18 plus gets married to minors below 18. Yes, every country has its own culture BUT COME ON! MAN.
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