Gurprit Singh

I'm a bhatri sikh, and only the age of 15 but my mum and dad are going to get me engaged by the end of next month. and I dont think I'm ready I dont know what shall I do.

As I am bhatri sikh, Im not allowed to say no to this alliance and cant even see the boy. I really want to study and go on fuirther education but obviously my parent will not agree to thsi npr would the bhatra society so me going to college or university is a big NO. As the bhatra society thinks that the boys can get educatedb ut the girls will have to get married early and go cook and clean for the house.

My paretns belive that a girl shouldnt get educated much and secondary school is enough and there is no point ofa career because we bhatri girls will get back to step 1 again whioch is to cook, clean and produce kids.

I really dont want to go ahead with the alliance.

U have two older sisters ones 21 and the other 19 and both were married at 16.But i dont want to go in their steps.

Please help me find a solution, because its literally impossible for me to say no as my parents wont agree and take into account whay my say is.

[/quote waheguru ji ka khalsa :T:

waheguru ji ki fateh

first of all penji please donnt call himself bathra sikh , you are a sikh like us, i know lot of bhatra sikhs they are all not like that, secondly say No to them , u just a kid what,s wrong with ur perents ?

we are live in modern society where girls and boys are same, donnt be weak, donnt suffer in silence, talk to ur close friends and relatives tell the world thats, happening wrong if u in UK tell me i,ll b help u , God bless you !

Tajinder Singh in the middle (21)

Satvir Singh (17) on our right, Tajinder Singh's left

both veers were cousins as well as Khalsa brothers

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It is with great sadness to inform the sangat online that three young Gursikhs aged 15, 17 and 21 have drowned in the Lake District.

They went to a Sikh Gatka Demonstration where they were swimming in the lake. One boy got in trouble and three youths went to aid him. However, one survived, three others drowned.

Please do ardaas for these great great kids...

really very sad news for me as well they were my cousin,s friends, wahegurooo.waheguroo,wahegurooo,waheguroo,wahegurooooooooooo :wub:

It is with great sadness to inform the sangat online that three young Gursikhs aged 15, 17 and 21 have drowned in the Lake District.

They went to a Sikh Gatka Demonstration where they were swimming in the lake. One boy got in trouble and three youths went to aid him. However, one survived, three others drowned.

Please do ardaas for these great great kids...

really very sad news for me as well they were my cousin,s friends, wahegurooo.waheguroo,wahegurooo,waheguroo,wahegurooooooooooo :wub: