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it dusnt maater wether u have ur dhaari flowing or wether its tucked in neatly. for example, if ur a doctor or a surgeon, it would b sensible to keep ur dhaari tucked up....it may effect how well u do ur job..

the way u hav ur dhaari dusnt effect the way u do simran or kirtan....oh w8..mayb it dus..

dusnt it sey sumwhere that wen u do simran, it flows through u....to the very tips of ur hair....so if u hav ur dhaari open, then it has more effect?

OMG>.. :D @ i'm so stupid .i jus confused myself..sum1 help meeeee

yehhh but u dnt get punished if u dnt..tis jus a matter of respect

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naaree, i tink ur problem is that the onli reason ur doin paath is so that the pain will go away. u shouldve bin doin it neway.

its v.hard 2 get ova a realtionship, but the point is that u should hav refrained frm it from the start. thats wot is riten in gurbani.

but i think u gotta think carefully bout sikhi, and start wantin 2 understand and follow it, rather than jus having to or jus doin it 2 free urself frm pain.