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Its been quite a while my elder sister got married 2 yrs back, her in laws are really nice people Not amritdharis but they are like amritdharis, My jiju is asking my sister for amrit but she dnt want It yet( dnt knw why) The problem what we think is with her in laws is that they are nice people and my real sister is trying to mess up their entire peaceful family May be my sister is targeting to get separated from their happy lovely joint family, just after marriage she was complaining about issues like my jiju dnt get her the small eatables, ( but it was not true when we find out) She also sometimes try to avoid her mom in law(she is also very peaceful nature) My whole family really surprised that her in laws are very true people, now my sister got a baby girl ,two mnths back ,And her in laws celebrated it with great joy more than boys. They love the baby girl too much, when my sister when home from hospital with a new born girl, that time her in laws celebrated whole house with desi.ghee divas, to welcome new girl in the family In short, there is no fault in them at all, but i am very sad to say all fault is my sister and she now started arguing with her draaani( in law sister) My sister got operation and needs two mnths rest, nd her sister in laws does all household chores alone, but my sister dnt even help her with cutting onions or cutting veggies etc So sister in law asked her to make a tea, as she was busy with all joint familis food, and my sister started to argue, and saying them," u r forcing me to work, u dnt like me, i need rest nd all that" Her mom in law said, dear if u need rest, we dnt have any problem, u can have rest, we will make the tea ourselves and make it for u too" We just asked u to mke tea, as u were standing in the kitchen and we thought u can help a bit, making tea isnt making ur operation bad. But anyway u do ur rest But now sister is trying to mess up this small issue, and calling me that take me with u and all that How can i go there and take her home? Its their own house now, and every time i go i found sister is wrong. Even my parents clearly say that out daughter is wrong, but she is like really making everyone dukhi, my family and her in laws family. 100 percent are my sisters mistakes, in laws are very true and nice people. My sister also speak very rude with my parents when they try to teach something, My sister now dnt respect her own mother, how can we expect her to respect mother in law. Waheguru know why is she messing up everything badly, we are not happy from this bad behaviour of my sister, my mom is very dukhi from her. Any suggestions from my sister bibbian from the forum please Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh