Jo har kaa piaaraa so sabhanaa kaa piaaraa hor kaethee jhakh jhakh aavai jaavai |17|
One who is dear to the Lord, is dear to all, so many others come and go in vain. ||17||
Source - http://igurbani.com/?shabadid=2131&id=24418
"Dear to all" is the Criteria for being a PIYARA !
Stop promoting biased individuals & jathas whether present or from the past.