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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa !! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh !! Guru roop sadh Sangat jio , Das needs has some wedding questions!! Parent are looking for girl for me to get married So currently there is this girl we are having a discussion about . She is not Amritdhari , but she has been doing path and sehaj path from childhood and is very strict in it. The girl is beautiful she is from Mumbai , Das is from chandigarh i asked her if she could take amrit , if we decide to get married. Her answer was that due to her job in fashion field , she isnt doing it . but i said , you'll have to move to chd and there is 100% chance you will not find same work here and you will not feel bad about being an Amritdhari. but her brother said its a very big step for her as we do not want to force her (which is true , even i do not want to force her) The thing that is troubling me is that , why would that be an issue for a person who is really firm believer in Sikhi and who does regular path.? My family says its not an issue you can get married to her!! she will take amrit bit latter!! Following are my concern's 1) we can not eat Jhoot . share each others food. - now it would create issues latter on 2) no physical relation -- Please help me out - what to do ? i definitely do no not want to break my amrit !!