What does a sikh guy do if hes in a marriage where his wife wont sleep with him. Its been a few years but then 9 months since the last time. We live like house mates, seperate bedrooms, absolutley no intimacy whatsoever. There is absolutley no family support. Theres just two of us in our home. Shes happy to live like this and i feel enjoys making me suffer and wont divorce as shes scared of her family and has no where to go. So basically its how its gna be. Its never going to be same in future as I know what its done to me these last few years. Any guy might of went elsewhere but ive kept sikhi intact. but what the hell does a person do?
It affects self esteem, and start to question if im no good or not good enough. I didnt think it would but its so demotivating and affects every area of life. Even to the point of living sikh life as the joy of a companion is gone and its just constant pain of living eith someone who dont love me back.