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i met this guy 2 years ago. We both love each other and family knows that too and have no problem with our relation. We both r sikhs. He is not blessed with amrit though but i m. We had s*x before I was amritdhaari but i continued it twice even after being an amritdhaari. It's a bajhar kurehet and i know i m no longer an amritdhaari. Also, I m 20 and he is 21. We cant get married yet because we r not settled enough to get married. I honestly dont want to do peshi but i have asked for forgiveness like 1000 times from guru sahib. and have done lots and lots of paaths till now. I am very confused. I m no longer an amrithdhaari? no logic of wearing 5Ks? no logic of doing nitnem? I have loads of shardha in my heart but i m just scared of being embarrassed and i just dont wanna do peshi but i can do paaths no matter how many. It was me who asked for S*x, he didnt. i shared this thing with him too and he said guru maharaj to maafi manglo. but i dont know if thats enough. I swear not to do this anymore but for my past actions to be erased, war should i do? bhull chukk maaf wjkk wjkf