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  1. It is on October 26, 2013 between 11AM-6PM, at Rancho Tapo Community Park (Lemon Park),{3700 Avendia, Simi Valley, CA 93065 (805) 584-4400}.

    Snacks and Guru Ka Langar will be served.

    Fun activities for kids and grown ups.

    Opportunity to win different prizes, try your luck with Raffle tickets.

    If you want to contribute to the Langar or interested in volunteering for Seva, please contact Sewak Khurana (818)-851-0020

    Check out PICNIC_FLYER for more information and direction.

    http://valleysikhtemple.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/PICNIC_FLYER-_2013_.pdf

    Source - http://www.valleysikhtemple.org/?p=339

  2. Lol....... Replying to your third point.... Veere the second girl whom i came across belonged to a missionary family and the third one whom i mentioned about was from AKJ family...probably this is why i am highly amazed.....

    What do you have to say now...

    Never kiss & tell.

    Don't blame any community for the actions of few.

    Why did the girls leave, do introspection.

  3. Some words of wisdom for bachelors who are looking -

    1. No money no honey.

    Even Bollywood has stopped making films showing a rich babe marrying a poor guy :-)

    First get a job then think about marriage.

    2. In India working women are mostly vulnerable, bosses do take advantage.

    So if you want a virgin, non-promiscuous wife then go for non-working girl.

    3. Right place & right approach

    Ask Akhand Kirtani's, Dodra Saadh Sangat or Sikh Missionary (as per your liking) to arrange a match.

    Finding a girl on your own without parents support will be futile so get their consent.

    4. Look for a girl & family who are comparatively weaker then you in financial terms.

    Secret to happy married life, low maintenance-obedient wife :-)

  4. WJKK WJKF

    I am a Sikh guy from Delhi. I want to ask a question about Sikh girls, virginity and sex before marriage. But first, I want to tell you about what has driven me to come here and ask this question.

    I used to like a girl in the final year of my school. She used to like me too. We used to blush a lot while talking to each other and We used to talk to each other a lot. We told each other about our feelings and felt good about it. Later we went to different colleges. One day there was a cultural event in her college, I came to know of it from my friends in that college, and thought I should surprise her. I went there with my friends and saw her with some other guy, dancing, laughing and having her fun. I felt awkard and bad seeing that but I tried to ignore having seen what I had seen. When I asked my friends about that guy, they said he was her guy, and they had seen them making out quite a few times. I couldnt believe it. She used to say she liked me, loved me, wanted to be with me. I was heart broken. I spoke to her about it and she confessed to it. I stopped talking to her. That teenage love ended then and there. I was depressed for a very long period of time.

    After 1.5 years I came across a girl through a mutual friend. She was amritdhari, looked kinda cute and had approached me herself. I started to like her company. She was studying at a college in Gurgaon. After some time of our friendship we both felt attracted towards each other. But she had bad company, had ONLY guy friends, used to go with em to hookah bars, pubs and all other kinda wrong places. I myself am an amritdhari and i personally do not like going to any such places as I feel that Sikhs must not go to these kinda places. (Kutha, hukkah, charas, tambaku, ganja , topi, taadi, khaaku.. inki ore na kabahuu dekhai rehetvand so sikh bisekhai) ... also came to know about her alleged physical relationships with many of her friends. So, we broke up. And I was shaken up again.

    After another year of staying depressed and aloof, I came across one extremely amazing girl. She looked very decent and adorable and belonged to an amrirdhari family. Her mom ties dastar, her dad is a great man and knows a lot about gurbani and sends amazing vibes whenever you look at him. But she has had a past too and has been with 2 guys, both of them were hindus and "bihari" and i came to know from a friend who was there in her college that she has done "it" many a times with her guys and there were several pics of her floating around.

    Now, By the Guru's grace, I am a Six feet tall, somewhat buffy, fair, pochviin pagg tying, amritdhari Sikh guy and I get plenty of compliments and attention from the opposite sex. I have completed 5 years of my college life at two of the most happening colleges in delhi and have had plenty of chances myself to be 'up, close and personal' with the most adored girls in my colleges. But I have made sure to not to commit any of the four 'kurehits' all these years. I consider any kind of physical intimacy as something sacred which must occur between two people who are life partners and not a mere source of pleasure which can be done with anybody. Thus, I am still a virgin. Yes, 24, male and still a virgin. And yes, I will get married sooner or later. As anybody would, I too want a Sikh girl of good morals and a high character to be my life partner, Someone who knows Sikhi values to the core, hasnt fooled around with guys and of course has her virginity intact. But seeing the current state of Sikh girls (encountering those 3 in my life, seeing Sikh girls in my college and hearing about them from my friends), Seeing all this, I have developed a negative image for girls in my mind and i do not even feel comfortable talking to them. I dont think there are many left who still stay virgin till they get married. Sometimes when sad and depressed, I feel like I should get even and feel like falling for the advances of girls around me. But when I get back to my senses I feel bad for even thinking that ways and I do not want to defy my Guru. I want a decent girl to be my life partner, bit it now seems a rare possibility. I am utterly disappointed and worried. Please help me out. I would like people who are married or in relationships and especially bibiyaan, matawan, bhainaa to please understand my problem and help me come out of it.

    WJKK WJKF

    Waheguru ji ka khalsa

    Waheguru ji ki fateh

    Harsimran being an Amritdhari you should let your parents or grand parents do their duty ie find a suitable daughter in law.

    Don't worry there are plenty of Sikh virgins, just follow Gurmat and you will marry one.

    Finding a girl on your own is not advisable, if you do, chances of ending up with a loose wife are high.

    In the mean time read

    http://www.11points.com/Food-Drink/11_Foods_That_Just_Might_Kill_Your_Sex_Drive

    Waheguru ji ka khalsa

    Waheguru ji ki fateh

  5. Gurpurab Clothes Drive 2013

    InVEST in those in Need

    On Sunday 17th November 2013 The Sikh Community of Leicester would like to celebrate Sri Guru Nanak Dev Jees Gurpurab by encouraging the Sangat (congregation) and wider Leicester community to partake in the Seva (selfless service) of the poor, disadvantaged, in need and homeless.

    Sri Guru Nanak Dev Jee, the first Sikh Guru was a social reformer and a spiritual guide for Sikhs. He blessed Sikhs with key principles such as a belief in One God, equality, selfless service, earning an honest living, sharing with and caring for humanity. Accordingly, the November Gurpurab is a time when Sikhs celebrate the day we were blessed with Sri Guru Nanak Dev Jee on this earth.

    Consequently, The Sikh Community of Leicester would like to fulfil Sri Guru Nanak Dev Jees message to selflessly serve humanity by supporting Rainbows Hospice (reg. charity 1014051), Unique Home for Girls (reg. charity 1127531) and Action Homeless (reg. charity 702230) this Gurpurab. These three local charities are carrying out vital work to help children suffering from terminal illness (Rainbows), abandoned girls (Unique Home for Girls) and women and children who have been left homeless as a result of domestic violence (Action Homeless).

    On Sunday 17th November 2013 the Clothes Drive will take place in the Day Centre at Sri Guru Tegh Bahadur Gurdwara, 106 East Park Road, Leicester, LE5 4QB between 9am-4pm so that people of all faiths and backgrounds can drop off their quality used and new clothes. Please note that clothes must be in good condition as these will be worn by those children, women and families in need. More donation details and contact information is attached on the poster and clothes donation list.

    Furthermore, there will be a Cake Sale stand whereby Kaurageous Leicester will be selling baked goodies to raise money for Khalsa Aid. Established in 1999, Khalsa Aid (reg. charity 1080374) is an international non-profit aid and relief organization founded on the Sikh principles of selfless service and universal love.

    Your generosity is greatly appreciated in making this Gurpurab special for everyone in Leicester.

    Nanak Naam Chardikala, teraa bhanaa Sarbaht dah Bhalla

    Nanak asks for 'Naam' (name of God) with which comes well-being, happiness and positive spirit and with your blessings, Lord may everyone in the world prosper and be in peace"

    Contacts for more information, media communication, baking requests and Seva slots:

    leicesterkaurs@hotmail.com or 07816 901665

    Facebook Event: https://www.facebook.com/events/442205619223726/?ref_dashboard_filter=calendar

    Source - http://leicesterkaurs.blogspot.in/2013/10/shopping-autumn-clean-then-join-gcd2013.html

  6. SAD to contest in 12 seats in Delhi polls

    By Harpreet Bajwa - CHANDIGARH Published: 21st October 2013 09:59 AM Last Updated: 21st October 2013 09:59 AM

    Eyeing a pan-India footprint after its huge success in the recent Delhi Sikh Gurdwara Management Committee (DSGMC) elections, the Shiromani Akali Dal (SAD) has apparently decided to contest alone in 12 seats in the upcoming Delhi Assembly elections.

    The decision to start legwork in 12 constituencies was taken after the Akalis failed to reach a seat-sharing agreement with the BJP, its alliance partner in Punjab.

    In line with this, the Akalis will contest these seats even if the BJP fields candidates for these seats.

    The 12 constituencies chosen by the SAD are Rajouri Garden, Tilak Nagar, Hari Nagar, Moti Nagar, Timarpur, Adarsh Nagar, Greater Kailash, Kalkaji, Parparganj, Shadara, Shakur Basti and Vishvas Nagar.

    Explaining the reason behind the move, a party leader said, The BJP is not able to decide on sharing seats with the SAD. With little time to go for the elections, the leadership has asked us to contest from the seats having a big chunk of Punjabi and Sikh population independently.

    The reason for the parting of ways in Delhi was the deadlock over Rajouri Garden and Tilak Nagar seats. The BJP wanted the Akalis to chose from one of these.

    The development does not bode well for both the allies. According to SAD sources, the party can barely hope to get one seat while the BJP could lose the seats where SAD puts up candidates. Sources said its Delhi unit is going to start holding poll meetings in the 12 constituencies from Tuesday.

    The announcement of BJPs Delhi state unit president Harshvardhan as chief ministerial candidate in place of unit president Vijay Goel has the BJP men in Delhi in a state of flux.

    In the 2008 Assembly elections, the SAD had contested four seats - Rajouri Garden, Adarsh Nagar, Jangpura and Shahdara - but lost all of them.

    Of these two were fought on the SAD symbol and two were fought on the BJP symbol.

    SAD Spokesman Daljeet Singh Cheema said, Our talks with the BJP are going on and the final decision is yet to be taken.

    We hope things will work. The Delhi unit of the party had a meeting with SAD president Sukhbir Singh Badal and they have apprised him of the situation.

    Meanwhile, Punjab Chief Minister and SAD patriarch Parkash Singh Badal had been maintaining from day one that his party would contest the Delhi Assembly elections in alliance with the BJP.

    Source - http://newindianexpress.com/nation/SAD-to-contest-in-12-seats-in-Delhi-polls/2013/10/21/article1846228.ece

  7. ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ ॥

    Prabhaathee ||

    प्रभाती ॥

    Prabhaatee:

    1 ਪੰ. ੫

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    ਬੇਦ ਕਤੇਬ ਕਹਹੁ ਮਤ ਝੂਠੇ ਝੂਠਾ ਜੋ ਨ ਬਿਚਾਰੈ ॥

    Baedh Kathaeb Kehahu Math Jhoothae Jhoothaa Jo N Bichaarai ||

    बेद कतेब कहहु मत झूठे झूठा जो न बिचारै ॥

    Do not say that the Vedas, the Bible and the Koran are false. Those who do not contemplate them are false.

    2 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੫

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 5

    ਜਉ ਸਭ ਮਹਿ ਏਕੁ ਖੁਦਾਇ ਕਹਤ ਹਉ ਤਉ ਕਿਉ ਮੁਰਗੀ ਮਾਰੈ ॥੧॥

    Jo Sabh Mehi Eaek Khudhaae Kehath Ho Tho Kio Muragee Maarai ||1||

    जउ सभ महि एकु खुदाइ कहत हउ तउ किउ मुरगी मारै ॥१॥

    You say that the One Lord is in all, so why do you kill chickens? ||1||

    3 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੫

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 5

    ਮੁਲਾਂ ਕਹਹੁ ਨਿਆਉ ਖੁਦਾਈ ॥

    Mulaan Kehahu Niaao Khudhaaee ||

    मुलां कहहु निआउ खुदाई ॥

    O Mullah, tell me: is this God's Justice?

    4 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੬

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 6

    ਤੇਰੇ ਮਨ ਕਾ ਭਰਮੁ ਨ ਜਾਈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

    Thaerae Man Kaa Bharam N Jaaee ||1|| Rehaao ||

    तेरे मन का भरमु न जाई ॥१॥ रहाउ ॥

    The doubts of your mind have not been dispelled. ||1||Pause||

    5 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੬

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 6

    ਪਕਰਿ ਜੀਉ ਆਨਿਆ ਦੇਹ ਬਿਨਾਸੀ ਮਾਟੀ ਕਉ ਬਿਸਮਿਲਿ ਕੀਆ ॥

    Pakar Jeeo Aaniaa Dhaeh Binaasee Maattee Ko Bisamil Keeaa ||

    पकरि जीउ आनिआ देह बिनासी माटी कउ बिसमिलि कीआ ॥

    You seize a living creature, and then bring it home and kill its body; you have killed only the clay.

    6 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੭

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    ਜੋਤਿ ਸਰੂਪ ਅਨਾਹਤ ਲਾਗੀ ਕਹੁ ਹਲਾਲੁ ਕਿਆ ਕੀਆ ॥੨॥

    Joth Saroop Anaahath Laagee Kahu Halaal Kiaa Keeaa ||2||

    जोति सरूप अनाहत लागी कहु हलालु किआ कीआ ॥२॥

    The light of the soul passes into another form. So tell me, what have you killed? ||2||

    7 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੭

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 7

    ਕਿਆ ਉਜੂ ਪਾਕੁ ਕੀਆ ਮੁਹੁ ਧੋਇਆ ਕਿਆ ਮਸੀਤਿ ਸਿਰੁ ਲਾਇਆ ॥

    Kiaa Oujoo Paak Keeaa Muhu Dhhoeiaa Kiaa Maseeth Sir Laaeiaa ||

    किआ उजू पाकु कीआ मुहु धोइआ किआ मसीति सिरु लाइआ ॥

    And what good are your purifications? Why do you bother to wash your face? And why do you bother to bow your head in the mosque?

    8 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੮

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 8

    ਜਉ ਦਿਲ ਮਹਿ ਕਪਟੁ ਨਿਵਾਜ ਗੁਜਾਰਹੁ ਕਿਆ ਹਜ ਕਾਬੈ ਜਾਇਆ ॥੩॥

    Jo Dhil Mehi Kapatt Nivaaj Gujaarahu Kiaa Haj Kaabai Jaaeiaa ||3||

    जउ दिल महि कपटु निवाज गुजारहु किआ हज काबै जाइआ ॥३॥

    Your heart is full of hypocrisy; what good are your prayers or your pilgrimage to Mecca? ||3||

    9 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੯

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 9

    ਤੂੰ ਨਾਪਾਕੁ ਪਾਕੁ ਨਹੀ ਸੂਝਿਆ ਤਿਸ ਕਾ ਮਰਮੁ ਨ ਜਾਨਿਆ ॥

    Thoon Naapaak Paak Nehee Soojhiaa This Kaa Maram N Jaaniaa ||

    तूं नापाकु पाकु नही सूझिआ तिस का मरमु न जानिआ ॥

    You are impure; you do not understand the Pure Lord. You do not know His Mystery.

    10 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੯

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 9

    ਕਹਿ ਕਬੀਰ ਭਿਸਤਿ ਤੇ ਚੂਕਾ ਦੋਜਕ ਸਿਉ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ॥੪॥੪॥

    Kehi Kabeer Bhisath Thae Chookaa Dhojak Sio Man Maaniaa ||4||4||

    कहि कबीर भिसति ते चूका दोजक सिउ मनु मानिआ ॥४॥४॥

    Says Kabeer, you have missed out on paradise; your mind is set on hell. ||4||4||

    11 ਪ੍ਰਭਾਤੀ (ਭ. ਕਬੀਰ) ਗੁਰੂ ਗ੍ਰੰਥ ਸਾਹਿਬ : ਅੰਗ ੧੩੫੦ ਪੰ. ੧੦

    Raag Parbhati Bhagat Kabir Page:1350 Line: 10

    Source - http://searchgurbani.com/scriptures/ggs_shabad/4893/line/3

    This is a perfect example of what happens when you don't read Gurbani and follow kachi bani.

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