bluffmaster__singh

come on! now what if I say punjab vich jatt bhuke marde aur aase ithe internet te websites kholde! there is no dimension to how we use our money. If a person spends on fun and recreation, then the person should understand that they have a responsibility towards this world. and then they need to do their jobs and contribute if they want to keep doing such thing sin their lives. that is how the world moves. and please try to widen ur horizons too, punjab main jatt are still well off. they atlest almost all manage a drink everyday even though they miss out on meals. the key i feel is to have concern. look forward to help everyone u can. after that, live your life to the fullest.

Thank you so much bhajneet for taking so long and critically telling everything. thanks to everybody else too. :awesome but please dont take me wrong. The subject matter I have taken up now has been in my mind for 2 yrs now. And in these past two years I have grown weaker rather than getting stronger. I have done path everyday while my friends went to discs, hoping that I am getting the true God. And though I trust God so much now, I feel God to be standing besides me all the time. I thank him for everything he does to me. But at the same time I feel a hollowness in my life. I feel that and please no offense no hard feelings nothing but i feel, just started feeling may be that this isnt life. Life is to enjoy every moment. Life is to go for your dreams rather than saying these dreams are against the set laws. Life is to make your own pathways. If girls attract you, go for them. I mean I literally went to tears when I read that doing what I wanna do would be insult to the great kurbanis. :WW: But those were for rights. For freedom. For being what you want to be. For being right. And I also want to be what I want from myself right now. seriously this sounds great crap but I have done jabji sahib everyday for months and I didnt understand 90% of it. and now if I read it from satek, i feel why we need to do it each day. Rather we should sit back and comprehend how much we have accomplished in life, how much we look forward to change ourself and above all how much we can remember God in everything we see and we do! and I really dont believe in the fact that we need to read gurbani to become better sikhs better people. We really dont need The K's to lead the pure life. And i know I sound not just wrong but pathetic and highly frustrating. But that is what I am becoming. Someone who feels has God with him not as father or mother but as the true best friend. Gives all opportunity to live, have fun and do worldly pleasures but remember the ones who gave u this beautiful world. and be nice to your fellow beings. no undue stretching ur point pal have to learn so much from you but when you say sit back and watch drama and appreciate it, isnt drama itself a something meant for pleasure. But it does not cancels any of the set rules by Guruji so its really important part of life. but for me sikhi is to "kirat karo naam japo wand chako" and I find that if I fulfill it, I am on the path of truth as well as make my life a no compromise. If you have read all this, please 1 last thing this is all from my heart. I dont say I wanna cut hair for achiving something or I will archive instant happiness the moment I do it. Its just that I wanna shape myself into a person who takes the world the people the way it strikes me. I dumped my girl because she didnt like my looks(and she did tell it to me. We used to talk on phone while I was studying in a different city, but when I was back she was double minded with her future with me and never really go far in public with me and even though I want to cut my hair, I knew she isnt the one to tell that to me. She would have been happy if I would have told her my intentions but I never told, I am not a loser for such girls) Its just that I feel that I will live my life more contented and respect is something you have to have in your heart!!! I know I sound wrong but they seem to me like barriers in your mind. Thanks for your support. Hope to talk to you again!! Regards

thanks a ton for your replies. pretty long stuff I m writng here but I hope u will really go through it. I really respect what you just said. But its like why? I mean whole heartedly I agree with you that even a thought like this is shameful, and that is the only reason I am unable to talk to gursikh elders about this. But like in real world I dont know but I am really attracted to fantasies. and with hair as I went deep see diving last week I have to do a lot of problems. I could never do swimming way back at school because the hair do get wet and you have to take a head wash. now the kindof problems which come are different. The day the results of auditions were to come for the drama club at our college, the most senior guy comes to me and tells me that we wont be able to offer you main roles because you dont represent the character even though your acting is good, and you can be a part of the production team. My girl friend does not want to hang out with me. And if u think I want to cut hair for her alone then I have dumped her for that. And its like as much as we want to cover this fact but the girls really dont want to be out with us. Sikh girls marry sikh boys only because of parent pressure. and I know lustful life is not what Guru Ji would have guided but then I am really young and I do want to enjoy my life a lot more! I mean seriously this is isnt any offense to anything GuruJi might have told but like I do a lot of path and dont understand even a single word. Then I ask my mom why do sikhs do so much part when they dont understand the gurbani. She said that is the path of sikhi. But is it correct. I knew its not. So I read a 'satik' to understand the meaning of whats been written. and Gurbani Ji repeatedly only said to give importance to molarity, be humble, remember God, God is the ultimate. But cant we just keep religion as something that guides us. That takes us closer to God. and lust and everything is designed by God himself. Why shouldnt my life be of a humble person whose objective is to help others, be nice and polite, thank God for everything he does to us, but at the same time enjoy my life to the fullest. I mean I have tried doing path. I have been to Gurudwaras for long hours meditating but dont know. I am a really enterprising person as I see myself and I just cant help things anymore. I want fun in life. Please Rehelp[ :wub: ] Thank u so much!!!

Hello people I stand here in my life at a verge where I have to decide something for my life. I belong to a hardcore sikh family and my parents are proper sikhs. I love them so much for giving me their values, and teaching me the sikh culture. Honestly, I find almost everything the most practical. Hats off to them though we people dont wear hats ;-) But at the same time, there's 1 thing which has been brought up many times, and that is about sikhs keeping hair. - I know our culture, it is the image Guruji gave to us - I know that hair are given by God and we keep them to show respect to him But Then what if a want to cut my hair because i feel really uncomfortable with it. why shouldnt I cut them because that will enhance my looks.(plz dont say it wont, it is an obv. fact and I am young looks do matter a lot to me.) I mean if its God's gift and keeping it is his respect then why 99% of women wax their arms or why do we even cut our nails? the amount of trouble we take to maintain our hair, definitely if we do the same to nails we'll be able to manage it! And as far as it being a part of sikhism, I feel that sikism is only about "Kirt karo naam japo wand chakoo"... I am not saying this to show i am nice or anything but I just paid 20% of my salary to a blind school, I try to understand the meaning of path and one of my objective each day morning is to help my fellow men and remember the people whom I might have hurt and ask for apology. But the hair things just doesnt makes sense to me. I am 20 and I really want to cut my hair. Please give a direction to my life. If you think I am right please I need your greater help! If you think I am wrong please guide me. Thank you so much